Despite her age, a woman is always actively feeling
maternity. When the children grew up and became parents themselves,
female guardianship automatically switches to grandchildren. Who else
entertain, pamper and regret the baby, if not your own grandmother? But
sometimes two mothers find it difficult to find mutual understanding in matters of upbringing
baby From the height of unequal ages and depth of development experience
baby is seen differently. Sometimes there are serious differences.
How to feed, dress, punish and talk with the child – the general circle
disputes grandmothers and young mothers. The causes of conflict are in contrast
methods and approaches.
- Patience. With age, a woman usually becomes
more condescending to children’s disadvantages and pranks. She can
to accept grandchildren by any: whiny and persistent, capricious and
evil. Abstain from physical execution. Grandma is not too lazy
get up early and cook your beloved grandson or granddaughter of apple
pie, sit with the child at night, when he had a bad dream.
She has the patience to read a fairy tale, to make kulichik or
construction of houses and pyramids.
- Attention. Unlike busy work and problems
parents, grandmother will always have free time to
listen to grandchild or granddaughter’s stories about childhood dreams, little ones
successes or failures. This attitude develops in the child.
the trust. Therefore, children often seek help and advice.
grandmothers, and not to parents.
- Experience. Grandmothers are more experienced and wiser, they can do a lot
научить baby They know better than doctors what a baby needs,
explain the reason for his illness and help to cope with this when
help of traditional medicine.
- Another family model. The child often suffers because
parental conflict or lack of a father. If grandma is
happy marriage, she can show the baby other family
relations. Этот момент очень важен в воспитании baby
- Неопытная забота. Young mothers at the birth of a child
(especially the firstborn) try to wrap him up for fear of colds
overfeed, afraid to load physical
loads, giving preference to intellectual work. With
health problems mom usually refers to traditional
medicine: antibiotics and other chemicals.
- Butвые методы. Young mothers with behavior problems
children often resort to physical punishment or seek
help to psychologists. Neglecting grandmother’s advice to talk more often
with a naughty child in search of mutual understanding.
- Development. Young mother is always trying to give the child
more than she received in childhood. And there is nothing wrong with that! WITH
early age gives it to specialized circles, schools for
all-round development of the baby. This decision is also due to
high employment of the mother, lack of time for independent
Both approaches pursue creative goals. Here is very important
harmonious exchange of views. With совместном воспитании ребенка маме
and grandmother need to immediately identify and agree on principles
education of the baby, settling all differences.
Text: Katerina Pchelnikova