From repair to divorce, or How to make repairs anddo not quarrel?

Mon, Oct 06, 2014

Making apartment repairs together is the best way.
check feelings. True, it is contraindicated for couples at the stage
honeymoon, and indeed in the first year of marriage – in
avoid early disappointments. And if you have your blessed already
you know how flaky, and you can repair and not to kill
each other. How? Now tell.

First you have to admit: during family wars because of
repair very often it is we who are wrong (only tss).
Do not believe? Read on the choice of topics on the joint implementation of repair
on any women’s forum. Every second complaint: “he messed up”, “he
I could not ”,“ he did not finish it ”… Let’s agree: repair is business
joint, and the responsibility for it is also yours, family. Otherwise
All our advice will not help, and the long and sad road waiting for you
REGISTRY OFFICE. Well, or to mom.

Plan each step

Before turning the room, pin down the falling wardrobe
the tail of the cat Barsika, finally throw away that terrible vase (a gift from him
moms) – sit down at the negotiating table. Want – say, want –
Draw or view photos. With you – a clear plan of action
for each stage of repair. Preferably with the smallest
details.

Что это даст: позволит устранить многие разногласия еще в
the very beginning. Well, and will provide an opportunity to avoid phrases: “Why are you
stuck here? I wanted there! “, Or” You got me, you do not know
What do you want! ” Agree, very good benefits.

In a building materials store: split purchases

Let him buy all sorts of boring cements with plaster, rollers
and tassels. Keep the most interesting things for yourself: the choice of wallpaper, color
laminate design fixtures …

Что это даст: можно дать голову на отсечение, что ваши с
husband views on the design of rooms do not match. He wants a cozy
lair, and you dream of spacious rooms in the spirit of modernity. But
it is unlikely that he will enjoy two hours review catalogs
with wallpaper patterns (worse for him is just the joint selection of your
wardrobe). Therefore, agree: you are a designer, he is a foreman.
Most men will only be happy.

Separate responsibilities

Never do together what one can handle.
person. Apply the glue on the strips of wallpaper, and he let them
sticks. Charge him with the rough finish of the walls, and already “do
beautiful “finish finishing. And he at this time let him fumble in
bathroom with pipes dropping the adjustable wrench on an expensive italian
tile.

Что это даст: чем меньше поводов для сталкивания лбами,
the calmer the repair will be. The main thing is that everyone is engaged in
what can do. At least theoretically.

Treat everything with humor

He pokleil wallpaper in the nursery and solemnly invites to see
on the result. What do we do almost instantly? That’s right, “turn on
criticism”. Even if the wallpaper is pasted more or less normally, by all means
I want to say: “It’s crooked here,” “The picture didn’t match here” or
suicidal: “Tankin’s husband stuck the same ones much better.”
Forbid yourself to do it, otherwise the demise of your second pride
halves will be terrible: with screams, throwing rollers into the solution and
slamming doors. Instead, or praise your husband (if
really everything is fine) or with a smile say something like:
�”You know, this inverted bear, buried in the ass donkey, very
even nothing.

Что это даст: и так понятно — проблему лучше пересмеять,
and then decide together what to find out who is Krivorukov and who is
fool.

Invite workers and drive south

Find a good responsible team through your friends, hand them
sketches made by the designer – and for a month at sea (well, or to mom
to the cottage).

Что это даст: загорите, сбросите пару килограммов,
become the mistress of a modern shining apartment. And the reason for
scandals in this case will be just one: why is it,
Interestingly, so looks at the blonde in a bikini?

Comments

Tatyana 10/27/2016 I want to write that the recommendation on the site
http://ant-stroy.com/ to do a finishing tie in new buildings when
starting to repair is very relevant. If you save on this
stages of work, problems will be later. Checked on his apartment.
Vyacheslav 10/27/2016 I agree completely with the article, when we did
a fence following the example from the zaborcena.ru website had a lot of conflict, but then
norms and completed Diana 10/07/2016 The most reliable way well
make repairs – call the wizard. My husband and I after some
reasoning, and so decided to do. In the end, we have a wonderful
apartment, great mood. Before the repair did the design
the interior of the apartment turnkey for shares from Biglion
Discount. The 3D model helped us understand what it will look like,
so advise!

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