Why young families are crumbling: the reasons for the earlyof divorces and methods of their prevention

Вт, 03 июл 2018 Автор: Владимир Владимиров
Many young couples tend to legitimize their relationship,
even if they are not long enough. Russian trend
Unshakable confidence in her partner
observed in recent decades. Most of the newlyweds
dissolves the marriage shortly after its conclusion. To
To avoid this situation, it is necessary to understand the reasons for it.
occurrence.

Contents

Causes of early divorce

The main reasons for early divorce include the following:

1. Fictitious goals of marriage.

2. Household routine.

3. Housing issue.

4. Birth of a child.

5. Financial difficulties.

6. Spiritual incompatibility.

Often families are destroyed because of the fake wedding purposes,
when the motivation was the desire to get a special social
status or desire to gain independence from parents. These reasons
lie at the root of most unstable marriages that are breaking down
as soon as possible because young people take so much
responsible decision under the influence of own ambitions and not
consider the nuances of further development of relations.

Household routine creates a real test for a young family.
Newlyweds who have not studied each other in terms of life and features
housekeeping often break off relationships because they cannot
reconcile with the specific habits of the partner. They are unusual
to realize that a family is a continuous work, and not a one-time trip to
score. But if the spouses are willing to compromise, the household routine
will strengthen relationships.

The housing issue makes its share in the overall statistics
divorce proceedings because the problem of lack
own housing today is particularly acute. Often young
couples rent an apartment, or live under the same roof with their parents.
Since marriage at a psychological level implies stability
and independence, lack of personal space can oppress
the same sharing with parents involves compliance
their interests while solving most household tasks are young
families.

The birth of a child is happiness, but not every spouse
able to handle the burden of responsibility and new responsibilities
which he acquires after replenishment in the family. Without
moral training this event entails fatigue and
stress, provoking quarrels, which ultimately lead to
to divorce.

Financial difficulties heighten the atmosphere in the family, because everything
thoughts of the spouses are engaged in ensuring material well-being.
Under such circumstances, the newlyweds lose their leisure time and give each other
there is not enough time for a friend, so relationships turn into a routine
and begin to be associated with stress.

Before marriage, young people seldom attach spiritual importance.
compatibility because we are sure that over time all
formed by itself, but understanding and harmony is impossible
build in marriage artificially if they were not originally. Sharp
difference of views, worldview, hobbies of newly-made spouses
creates additional difficulties in family relationships.

How to avoid a divorce?

It is necessary to know in advance the views of the future spouse to life. With this
The goal is to discuss news and social phenomena together.
Joint leisure will help to identify common interests, and acquaintance with
representatives of the partner’s closest environment will enable
determine the level of his trustworthiness.

Family psychologists recommend to distribute long before the wedding
duties and discuss the nuances of joint management. If a
a couple is not ready for the birth of a child, you need to use the funds
contraception. Before applying to the registry office should be discussed
partner true reasons for entering into a marriage and objectively assess
the need for this procedure.

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