Mon, Jan 27, 2014
Probably, every woman is familiar with the feeling of disappointment when her
a man with a solemn air gives her a gift, and there … frightening
the kind of bursting stun gun, a perfume with a strong, heavy odor,
luxurious bathrobe, exactly 2 sizes larger or smaller than you
true dimensions. And offending a shining giver is hard, but hiding
sometimes annoyance is even more difficult. But you are so many times opaque
hinted at the vending thing, pointedly faded in
admiration for the sparkling windows of jewelry stores or
being a zealous hostess, complained that for complete happiness on
the kitchen lacks only a new combine, bread maker, dishwasher
cars.
Men have an amazing ability – watchful
listening to the hints of their girlfriend, they try so hard to guess
please, please, but the present they bring often turns out to be
not at all. Why is this happening?
- Men do not understand the hints. If in communication with
women of their own sex need only crawl quit
a phrase about the thing you like or praise a miracle
technology, you can be confident in the result. On the eve of the celebration in
your honor, faithful friend will search the whole city and buy the coveted
a gift, and even instruct friends about your preferences. WITH
men, this number will not work – even the thickest hint is not
comes to their consciousness. That’s the way their brain works – the stronger sex
Straightforward and agree to act only on clear and precise
instructions.
- Men perceive female chirping differently, sometimes
it seems that in our speech they hear only dimensional buzz, occasionally
fixing on individual words. There should be careful.
The main thing – do not forget that from lengthy instructions about what is not
you should buy, they will only remember the verb “buy” and it is those
items about the undesirability of the presence of which in your house you
trying to warn.
- A man loves his lady and is very afraid for her health and
security. It is these anxieties that generate scary looking gifts –
shockers, pepper spray cans and other arsenal of a young fighter. AND
explain that the very sight of these objects scares you to fainting and
there is no desire even to touch them. Remains
Only put the “weapon” in an elegant handbag and console yourself with the fact that
someday a gift will help save your life.
Is it possible to teach a partner to give the “right” gifts? WITHкорее
all, coping with the problem alone will not work. For
Re-education will require a smart faithful friend. ANDменно ей придется
take on the role of mentor, patiently pointing to
admitted mistakes, instructing and explaining what the error is.
What if the husband is hopeless? Even if all
efforts to direct the donor’s activities
Were in vain, there is a way out. Ведь не оставаться же без gift?
The little secret of the majority of friendly families has become
the tradition of sharing the “surprise”. This day spouse
you just have to open an unlimited credit – and believe, spend
a significant amount for them is much easier than once again
notice your frustration.
Are there perfect men?
Yes, about 1% learned to give the “right” gifts. How do they
succeeded? Long-term observations, painful reflections and
the use of tricks helped to achieve the desired result. And you know
how do they do it? Memorize the thing you like, secretly from
they buy you and anxiously hide until the day X. True, sometimes they happen
lining – if the solemn date is still far, then a woman can
and change your enthusiasm to a diametrically opposite opinion.
Text: Vera Guler
