Why fall in love, we forget about ourselves?

Thu, Feb 13, 2014

Love has its own laws. This is a feeling that comes suddenly
and gradually fading away. Love can never be permanent, like
and all life on earth. Sooner or later this feeling leaves
person And a woman should understand this, not with her heart, but with her mind. Even
A madly in love person may one day wake up and realize that
he fell out of love.

There are many women whom love transforms beyond recognition.
in the early stages, and then this feeling develops into euphoria and
brings them to exhaustion. They forget about themselves, about their hobbies,
about your appearance and completely dissolve in your loved one.

Why does love make us forget about ourselves? How to prevent
of this?

When two people fall in love, they forget about everything.
A woman forgets about her usual activities, her friends and makes concessions
loved one. A man denies himself watching sports
match and goes with his beloved to the theater. This romantic period lasts
a certain time, after which it is completed.

The man no longer wants to go to the theater, cinema, but prefers
relax in the company of friends or on the couch watching TV. And here
a woman begins to worry why her beloved began to pay
less attention and does not share her interests. She tries to cook
he has the best dishes, look after him and speak only affectionate
words, but a man is just annoying. She makes huge concessions
for the sake of his partner, and subsequently loses himself and his
individuality. Men such concessions and increased attention not
brings pleasure.

A woman is prone to hyper love. She is ready to dive so much
it is a feeling that forgets about the people around you and yourself. Love
turns into a drug for her. She tries to attract a loved one
man controls his life, but at the same time forgets about himself. AT
eventually the relationship begins to crumble. A man finds another
a lady who is not very attached to him and is easy in relationship.

Psychologists in one voice argue that it is impossible to completely
dissolve in your loved one. People in love exchange each other
other emotions, energy, knowledge. And when a woman
switches to a man and lives only for him, she can give him nothing
give in return; can not show the right way to his beloved
because she dissolved in it. And then the man begins to look
necessary feeding on the side, it becomes uninteresting and
bored with his partner.

To prevent such a state, you need to be able to replace the center.
pleasures. Love уйдет, этого не избежать. If between a man
and a woman during this time will not form a friendship, partnership
relationship or hobby that will bring them together and give
necessary vital energy, the couple will part.

The condition of happy love is a necessary parting. It is not
about partings for a month or a year. Each partner must live
full life, have friends, work, hobbies that would be him
помогали на время забыть про любимого person To during this time
have time to miss him. AT этом случае оба партнера смогут
feel the joy and pleasure of relationships, will be able to give each
friend positive emotions and love. Especially it concerns
women

To save love and tender feelings you need to stay.
interesting and necessary for men.

  • A woman should always look after her appearance. Men
    love beauty and aesthetics and always pay attention to well-groomed
    women
  • A woman must be individual: have a personal opinion,
    have your own unique style and manners.
  • A woman should set aside time for herself: her hobbies,
    Hobbies, going to the cinema, theater, to her friends.
  • A woman should allow a partner to rest on her own.

Do not forget about yourself and keep the man with both hands. Need to
be able to love, but still be yourself.

Text: Svetlana Ahi

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