Why did I lose a loved one?

Why do we lose loved ones? Do we read little literature about
relationships, listen to little advice from people with great life
experience? Doesn’t intuition tell us that this is how
should not do?

And yet, many of us are again and again attacking
the same rake, repeating identical mistakes. Excuses when we are EXACTLY
wrong:

�“He’s just not the one I need!” “He’s the one to blame for everything!”
�”If he had called and said this and that …” “If
would he apologize first … “etc. etc.

These are all excuses. There are no perfect men, and we just
moving away from responsibility for building relationships. Remember! Never
do not expect any actions from him! Do it all by yourself! You
do you love him? Right? Show this love, give him joy.
Let every moment next to you be magic for him
a fairy tale, not a terrible nightmare. Believe me if you create next to
such a sunny, warm atmosphere, he even thought in his head
will not come away from you. By doing it sincerely, you will get a ton
the pleasure of having your loved one happy. Happy
near you! Разве этого уже мало?You замечала, что девушка всегда
she manages the relationship: decides how and when to develop
further, it gives its consent or refusal. Because appreciate this
a jewel, because they are built every day for many
years, and you can destroy them in a flash. And now some useful
tips for you, my love!

Learn to control your emotions. If you are angry at him, then not
you should immediately tell him everything you think about him, his mom,
friends and God forbid about ex-girls! This is not you saying, but
emotions in you.

Come out better in another room, take your breath, eat a delicious candy
or a few, so that not a single terrible word fell from yours
angelic mouth. After a silence, we get energy, and with each
in a word – spend it. Should you waste your precious energy
what did you want to say? Not? Calm down? Now fine? Already
forgot? Well done! When you get back to him absolutely calm,
good mood, he will appreciate this act, especially if earlier
the lava of your exploding emotional volcano, hitting it,
it hurt his heart. Learn to understand him. This is actually
Lying. We are different, we will never understand each other the same way
as we understand our girlfriends. But also love the same will not! How
said Osho: “A woman must be loved, not understood.” Why so
can not say about men? There is something to think about? Fine!

A list of its shortcomings. You take a leaf and write a list of everything
what you don’t like about him What? Not so much? According to
psychologists, we notice in others exactly the flaws that are
in ourselves. Now a little work on yourself, love for him, and
you will forget about them soon.

In a relationship, it does not suit me … We are writing the list again. maybe
There are topics that you have long wanted to discuss with him, but either not
solved, or did not find time for it. Now it is that
right moment! Absolutely all problems can be solved by
dialogue. maybe, даже окажется, что он сам хотел поднять эти же
themes, but something also hindered him. Don’t make an elephant out of a fly. �”He is with
I did not greet me! Probably, I am no longer interested in him! “,” He
somehow strangely looked at me! “,” He said this in a strange tone. what
what happens to our relationship ?? “Most likely, you are all this yourself
came up with. Nothing terrible, with all sometimes happens. Be
sincere. If you play the role of his favorite character from
books to like him, sooner or later he will understand that his
meanly cheated all this time. Do not be afraid to be with him yourself!
There are drawbacks at all. He, too, is not perfect. Great exit
from this situation there will be forgiveness of the shortcomings of each other.
dear and valuable in life are relationships with people. They do not purchase
like some thing for money. A lot is invested in their construction
time and effort. Just one word, one act can destroy them.
forever. For any girl, women are very important relationship with her beloved
by man. So let’s do it so that never again with
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