Tue, Dec 20, 2016
The office is not far from home, colleagues are wonderful people, almost all
does not happen, and the salary is always given on time. You also think that
Nothing can break this idyll? You are mistaken.
If your boss is a man, he is quite capable of becoming a pain in
your fifth point. Rather, his feelings. After all when workers
relationships go to the front of personal, so easy to get lost in
the intricacies of subordination and responsibilities …
So. The boss often calls you to her for no reason, employees
start whispering behind your back and malevolently squint into your
side, and the young secretary, seeing your approach to the office
head, do not even try to hide a smile. What to do?
Option 1. Negotiate
Even the most carping and obstinate boss can
explain that he is dear to you as a wonderful and sensitive mentor, and you
invaluable to the company as a specialist. And who knows how to turn
if you leave because of his harassment? The main thing –
follow the basic rules:
- not show aggression (speak quietly, but so that you are well
was heard; watch the diction; Do not go on
do not threaten your husband / police / curse because it’s
can provoke a self-confident man);
- Do not show off the conversation (if there are ten around
pairs of curious ears, it will be difficult to solve the problem);
- do not be so cheeky and brazen (so you only sow
in the soul of the chief is a lush garden of doubt and he will think, and whether you
say what you really think).
Option 2. Ignore
Just ignore it. The boss approached you too
close and trying to put a hand on his shoulder – move away by making
pretend that you need to take something from a nearby table or fix it
ikebana on the wall. Invites you to dine at the restaurant – tell,
that you are on a diet and after six eat only crackers with water. Not
give him promises for the future and present everything in
friendly form.
Option 3. Resign
This is absolutely a cardinal step and it is worth attention only in two
cases: when to endure is no longer possible, or when it is taken into consideration
vacancy in another organization. But even then it is better to save with
Chef normal relations, otherwise you can just stay on the beans –
without severance pay and with an ugly employment record.
Option 4. Agree
Well, it happens. Not зависимо от того, какие мотивы вами
driven by (thirst for material goods or sincere feelings for this
per person), there is a risk of losing your job after
relationship “tired big boss and he wants to relax from you. So
think well before you become a toy in someone’s
hands.
However, it is also worth a closer look at the situation.
Perhaps you thought it all, and the boss adheres to a friendly
behavioral style also with your colleagues? And it can happen
true love, from which, as you know, no other love is sought.
Be careful!
Text: Matryona Barabanova
