Sun, 20 Jul 2014
Some women face a problem: at some point
they begin to realize that their husband annoys them. And gradually
the irritation gets bigger and bigger and the woman starts
think about a divorce. What are the reasons for this situation? Why annoying
husband
The reasons for such irritation always lie in family relationships.
couples. It may be a critical period for your marriage, which
you just need to survive. Indeed, this is enough
often. After a few years of family relationships, a crisis ensues, and
still very recently insanely loved close person begins
provoke. And irritation causes absolutely everything: as he says, he eats,
drinks, looks at you. This crisis is experiencing almost all family
couples.
The reason may be different: this person did not suit you with
the very beginning. He just did not suit you, but sudden love,
turn the head, ended the wedding. Paying for your decision
getting married becomes exactly the annoyance of your spouse.
It is also possible that over time, a woman begins
себя чувствовать лишней: husband всегда на работе, в свободное время
busy with his business or relaxing with friends. She just feels
yourself unnecessary. И здесь, самое главное — не отставать от husbandа, вы
must develop together. You may have common hobbies, common
friends, something must be done together.
What to do?
In this situation, you need to understand the causes of irritation.
First, think, perhaps, you are different.
psychologically ages. What does it mean? Ваш husbandчина повзрослел,
settled down and works for the good of the family, and you are still in the soul of a child.
Many problems you do not take seriously, and they fall on
плечи husbandа. He is unhappy with your childish view of the world, and you – his
seriousness and degree. Или, наоборот, husband никак не хочет
grow up, and the whole family rests only on you. To figure it out
you can only seriously talk with your half.
Talking about the pros and cons of each other will help you find the reasons
irritations and discontent, as well as ways to eliminate them. With
mutual desire, you can always keep the relationship such
what they were at the beginning of your acquaintance.
It is very important to look for good in each other, and not to dig into
little things of character, annoyed even more. Having considered the unsung
previously positive qualities of your chosen one, you are not only
look at it from the new side, but love it again.
