Thu, Jan 16, 2014
In the XXI century, the concept of “unequal marriage” is outdated. Many relationships
acquired a paradoxical form.
Previously, people united for two main reasons: material
benefit (marriage of convenience) or love (mutual feelings). Now
Much has changed, and it is often possible to meet an “unequal marriage”, in
the basis of which lie various reasons.
Men aged often want to get a young bride
several reasons.
- Вернуть себе уверенность. When man’s sex drive
gradually fading away, he begins to panic. Young woman can
become the object of adoration, and return to his life lost
sexy rhythm.
- Романтика. With age, a man needs to
romance, including to enhance sexual interest and
attraction
- Взаимное уважение. A man gets tired to make sexy
feats and wants to see with him a young good wife he
will adore.
Women over 40 also often choose young partners. They
pursuing their own interests.
- Секс. A woman passes a certain stage in her life and
I want new impressions, including sexual ones.
- Romance. In a young husband, a woman finds realization
their maternal feelings. She wants to take care, give love and
tenderness.
- The extension of youth. Woman looking for a young man
because he wants to prolong his youth (external and
internal).
Psychologists say that each partner wants to get
benefit from multi-age relationships. And if they find it, then
the so-called “unequal marriage” is taking shape.
Many argue that “unequal marriages” always lead to collapse.
British scientists have proven that in “unequal unions” husband and wife
experiencing more stressful situations.
The marriage union is long-term as long as the partners feel the power
rapprochement, and while they are united by something in common (interest, passion,
love, business).
Husband is older than wife
A woman choosing a husband as a husband is much older than her, often not
weighs up to the end the “pros” and “cons” of such a marriage. When euphoria
passes, it turns out that she is not ready to accept this relationship.
After the wedding revealed a lot of unpleasant moments. But also
harder she has to when her husband does not want to change anything in his
well-established lifestyle and does not want to adapt to the young
wife
The pitfalls in such a relationship are more often: the presence of
husband of children from previous marriages, the difference of interests and intimate
Problems. To save such a marriage, the wife often has to
adapt to her husband: put up with his character, habits and
try to match his ideal of a woman.
Wife is older than husband
When a wife is older than her husband, problems in a relationship are often
jealousy and self-doubt. It is easier for a man to live life
the conditions in which he falls in marriage with a woman older than him. is he
understands the experience and maturity of his spouse and uses it to
organizing a more comfortable life.
As a rule, the young spouse does not want to spend his youth in
quiet family nest. His soul requires entertainment, communication, and
diversity. Often such a union is broken, due to the inability of the young
the husband takes the relationship and family seriously.
Therefore, before entering into “unequal marriages”, it is necessary well
consider this important act, highlight the pros and cons of future
relationship. It is not necessary that this marriage be destroyed with time.
As the statistics show, the classic variants of marriage unions
break up more often “unequal”.
Examples of official “unequal marriages”:
- Actress Demi Moore with her young spouse, actor Ashton
Kutcher (age difference – 16 years).
- Singer and composer Igor Nikolaev and singer Julia Proskuryakova
(22 years difference).
- Singer Prokhor Shalyapin and business woman Larisa Kopenkina (26 years old)
difference).
- Singer Alla Pugacheva and humorist Maxim Galkin (27 years old
difference).
- Певица Мадонна и ее партнер Хесус Лус (28 лет difference).
- Actor Oleg Tabakov and actress Marina Zudina (30 years old)
light cereals).
- Музыкант Ронни Вуд и Екатерина Иванова (41 год difference).
