Trust, but verify, or As far as is necessarycontrol partner

Any relationship is built on trust, it is known to all. But early
or later the thought will start in the head of even the most naive person:
�”but what if?”. And if there was even the slightest excuse, and even your man
lingers at work and goes on trips, from painful
suspicion is very difficult to get rid of.

Mistrust equals uncertainty

Still great Omar Khayyam said that it is impossible to seduce
a man in love. If for a man you are the most charming and
attractive, and this is most likely true, since he lives with
by you, you are protected from treason. And your distrust may be
dictated by the uncertainty, the thought that someone would be
more attractive. Therefore, we begin to love ourselves. And for that
We develop: go to the gym, sign up for the theater club and
etc. Confident man is confident in his partner.

Don’t wake famously

Some women love to feel like detectives. They are reading
sms on her husband’s phone, his correspondence on social networks. Destroy
relationship is easy. But always, even in the most ambiguous situation,
you must first listen to your partner, preferably without emotion, but already
then draw conclusions.

Short leash or complete freedom

There are two opposing opinions. Some believe that the more
allow, the more it will enjoy. Others think that
the notorious short leash only provokes the desire to escape.
As always, the golden mean wins. Deprive a person’s personal
space and control every step is simply meaningless.
Anyone who wants to change will do it anyway. But also
Show your indifference is also not worth it. Your man should know
what matters to you, where is he, and with whom, but not because you don’t
trust, but because you are just worried about him. If he you
loves and respects, he will call to warn how
linger and with whom. Then go to bed calmly. Remember
that if there was no reason, your distrust you only
offend your partner.

Love yourself and save your nerve cells. A life в постоянном
waiting for betrayal will not benefit the relationship when
reasonable trust any man will appreciate.