The influence of words cannot be overestimated. With their help
you can both cheer up, make happy, so hurt. They are more
effective than acts, it is important to understand at the beginning
relationship and then you build a strong marriage, and also evade
fatal mistakes.
Hurtful words hurt, deeply hurt, undermine self-esteem and
even the most ideal couples are doomed to failure. Someone takes offense at
one thing, someone else, but there are taboo words that are by no means
case can not speak.
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I told you…
Oh, this phrase … Everyone loves her without exception, but agree
There is little benefit from it. Everybody has mistakes and needs to understand
that in such situations, men more than ever need support and
understanding. Should not be humiliated and remind him of failures, he and so
knows what was wrong.
In addition, expressing this, women,
realizing, they destroy the masculinity of their partner. As a result, early
or later may be next to the inactive person
who is not able to make a decision on his own.
Better say: “Next time we will do it differently.” So you still
just prove your reliability and prudence.
And Dima copes better
Do not even say that under a cannon shot. Man this
male, egoist, hunter and for him, to realize that someone is better
– Hit below the belt. Just think, in one phrase, you
humiliated the partner, shook his self-esteem and confidence in
to myself.
After this there is nothing to think about where love has disappeared,
mutual understanding, respect and passion. In addition, by this behavior,
you wake jealousy in a man, and this feeling is one of the most
insidious for a successful union.
Nobody excluded the human factor, and all of us are not perfect.
To love with all the flaws – this is what the real
love.
No need myself
At first glance, this is an innocuous statement, what is there
bad?
There are many stories where a woman herself condemned
relationship, pitying and guarding a man. �“Why? He is tired, he is money
earns, and his temperature is 37.2. I myself quick
I can handle it, ”say compassionate beauties.
As a result, quietly and gradually, all household chores are transferred to
�”Strong” female shoulders. Sooner or later there is discontent and
quarreling.
So, if you want to be a happy wife, not a horse –
become weak. Let the man take care of you, show
their skills, skill. Helping you out, he not only makes your life easier.
life, but also develops its masculine.
You do not love me
Often they say that when they want to draw attention to
yourself, stimulate to certain actions, but the realities of life
show that this method is ineffective.
Similar phrases cause the opposite effect: the man begins
angry, wondering what they want from him, then closes and
ceases to express their feelings. And why, if nobody
notices, and even blames on top of that? The male brain requires specific
desires and explanations, not vague hints, such is theirs
psychology, what can you do.
Everyone has their own methods of expressing love, it is necessary to understand.
Respect every action of your beloved, and if you don’t
enough – the best solution would be a heart-to-heart talk. Tell that
specifically about your desires and what do you expect from your family, that in your
understanding is love and how to express it.
I don’t want to talk to you
Every couple has quarrels, and that’s fine. When happen
differences, it is important to be able to express a point of view and dissatisfaction, but
There are cases when both partners do not want to communicate and even see each other.
If you look at it, this is a kind of “communication break” and the first
alarm bell. The result is that a man and a woman are not
understanding each other, continue to spend time on insult, and not decide
the problem.
In such cases, the only way out is conversation. Communicating with each
friend, you not only tell us about the reasons for your resentment, but also
узнаете партнера. Do as psychologists advise: do not
save insults, be a wise woman and take the first step.
Why did I get married?
There are various modifications of this phrase:
- it would be better if we did not meet;
- I used to live better;
- let’s break up;
There may be many options, but the meaning remains the same – in all
blame the man. But it is known that happiness depends on both, and
if there are problems, then this is a pair failure. Do not speak at each
grieving words like this (especially if you don’t think so), from
this problem will not evaporate, but only worsen. And who knows
perhaps by this you are pushing a man to the fact that he himself
will want to break up.
In such cases, it is much better to contact a specialist,
who will give valuable tips on improving relationships.
I do not care anymore
Another phrase is an indicator that the divorce is not far off. Under
the mask of “indifference” is usually hidden mental cry, thirst
manipulation or reluctance to adapt.
Perhaps this image will bring fruits, but certainly not for long.
Therefore, it is better to reach your beloved one through conversation. If she will
held in high tones, nothing terrible, because it is, on the contrary,
save you both from negativity. After that, there will be a real chance.
be heard, and also look at the relationship from the outside.
Why do you always …
Do you make notes for breakfast, lunch and dinner? Congratulations, you have
new addiction – criticism. When you rush to your partner
about and without him, you destroy him as a person.
Criticism is a powerful weapon against any relationship, it
reduces self-esteem, creates self-doubt and complexes,
после этого исчезает доверие, взаимопонимание и… love. Unhealthy
the atmosphere makes you want to leave as well as be comforted on the side.
What kind of family can be after this?
Make a list of the best qualities of a man (because you
love him for something), focus on this, and instead
critics – praise.
Love is the most pure and pleasant emotion on earth,
it is not a given, but an investment of each of the partners. Take care friend
Friend, respect and be happy!
