Together again after treason. How to start lifeagain? Male and female look

Fri, 25 Nov 2016

Woman’s look

Men’s treason for most women turns out to be difficult.
blow. Survive this test, without dropping their dignity, can
Not all. No matter how difficult it is, a woman will have to pull herself together
discard emotions for the time being and honestly answer yourself
question: is it possible to live together after what happened or better
immediately part?

It does not matter for what reasons the offended woman chooses
first option. The main thing is to realize it – it will be difficult.
The former ease in the relationship will not appear soon. But if a woman
decided to keep the family, then so necessary. And help in this
not easy simple tips. True, follow them, make them
The motto of your life will not be easy, but worth it.

  • The decision to save the family, the spouses take
    together, so as not to leave a reason to reproach their half later:
    �”And that was your decision!” Then it turns out that one person pulls
    on itself an unbearable burden, and the other indifferently gazes upon
    parties.
  • You should not behave like a royal person who
    Nobleness favored sentenced to death.
    You can not remind a man of his offense, especially if it is
    happened for the first time, and the ladies’ man himself sincerely repented.
  • The name of the opponent and even any hint of it are under
    the strictest ban. Constantly reminding her husband of the one for which
    he temporarily left the family, the woman is usually worried,
    Awards rival with unflattering epithets. In the end, she herself
    appears in front of a loved one in the form of ever-itchy annoying
    brawlers.
  • Watch your appearance and speech. Talk smooth
    in a tone neatly dressed. At the same time hide what pain caused
    treason female soul is not worth it. However, complaining and whining like
    now everything is bad, is also not recommended. The man, too, in this
    period makes a choice. It is necessary that he did not repent of him.
  • Do not rummage through the pockets and phone of her husband. Distrust is better to destroy
    the easiest way is to honestly ask you what
    worried.
  • Under no circumstances call upon relatives, girlfriends
    for help in resolving marital conflict.

The most important rule: you must sincerely, forgive your beloved
soul wishing him well. If deep in the heart remains nasty
little worm of doubt, you need to get rid of him, otherwise he will
spoil it.

Male gaze

Feelings will not go away from the fact that people have ceased to live together.
Love does not die overnight. �“Forever” is when frozen clods
the lands knock on the coffin lid. Until then, all or very much can
correct, if not return. Even if you say such things in your hearts,
what is there and regret.

С чего же начать путь друг к другу again?

  • With awareness of the causes of the situation. How was the betrayal of the one that
    wore on his hands and did not refuse anything? Here is a question for all questions.
    Just a huge request – not to engage in deep self-digging, and not
    blame it all on yourself. Seemingly guilty
    both.
  • See and communicate still have more than once. So –
    no one has repealed the “golden” rules – everything is decided by the world. therefore
    should sit down and start to talk calmly. Then when
    the basic emotions will die down and anger will enter the shores.
  • Maybe, in part, those who are not inclined to think
    physical betrayal treason. Men are easier in this sense, they
    the power of increased testosterone levels as if by nature itself
    �”Sharpened” for adultery. To change a woman –
    a man needs a very “try.” And even if it happens –
    blame may be fleeting passion, mild intoxication.
  • No matter how trite it sounds, we must learn to forgive. Perhaps,
    There is no such sin for which it would be impossible not to forgive. Yes,
    bitterly, yes, unbearably painful, yes, I want to get drunk. Just because
    alcohol will not “take” in this case. Return your favorite will only
    time, patience and sacrificial love. More precisely, readiness for it.

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