Thu, Feb 06, 2014
The truth is that everyone lies. This is one of the first
social skills that we acquire in childhood. And nothing with
It can not be helped, with age it does not pass. However, some
men this property is hypertrophied, which, to put it mildly, delivers
the discomfort.
To get started is to understand the causes of lies.
He never tells the truth about his girlfriends, and, even
if you accidentally read their correspondence, claims that this is a joke
hackers who hacked his account? He is just afraid to call your
jealousy, followed by scandal or, oh, horror, even a gap
relationship. Conclusion: do not ask slippery questions, do not try
�”Catch” it. Show the man that you trust him, and, over time,
this part of the lie will disappear as unnecessary.
He constantly tells heroic stories from his past.
and brags about skills that are not in sight, causing others
ironic laugh? Do not be ashamed of it. He just wants to be in your
eyes the most. So that everyone is jealous of what a treasure you
got it. True, it does it childishly naive, but this is not
vice. Frequently say compliments and admire his real
achievements. On the other hand, you need to periodically catch it on
lies Put him in such conditions that he had to actually
prove what he made up. Nothing cools the storyteller so much as
easy public shame. Just do not bend the stick, do not hurt
partner, no matter how hard he lies.
He forgets to carry out even small orders, such as buying bread.
and constantly coming up with thousands of non-existent reasons, not
allowed him to do it? It may be very strong
controlled in childhood, he got used to it, and the lie – just
defensive reaction so as not to scold. Pull down the reins. Let yourself
learns to control everything. Didn’t buy groceries – well, you today
without dinner. Do tea with sweets. The next day
will get everything you need. Use veiled methods
control. If you sent him to the mall, ask for a general
help a friend and give him a shopping list – as if you forgot
pass it on to your man. You will thus receive all that
you need, and he will get rid of annoying surveillance.
And finally, stop paying attention to petty lies. If a
it does not cause any damage – let him compose. Men need
allow small weaknesses. So you keep the peace and quiet of your
cozy nest.
Text: Anna Nikitenko
