Чт, 26 ноя 2015 BUTвтор: Елена Гурфинкель
If you are not a complete alarmist, then a week or two without sex
you are not much worried.
You never know what happens in people: stress, feeling sick,
trouble at work. But if the situation drags on, and you
For months, you have to beg your husband for warmth and caress in his native
bed then it’s time to strike the bells. Not very loud, of course:
shrill siren howl scares the last vibes in the soul and body
men, even if they still remained.
So, we must determine the level of hopelessness of the problem. Their
only two: the end of a relationship and a break, giving a break and a chance for
new flash. In any of these cases, most helpful hints.
This article will be universal: both options require no
to lose form, self-esteem and respect from a partner, even
if his desire is lost forever.
Contents
What to do in the first place, when the husband does not want his wife?
Для начала прекратите истерику. Bouts
panic, scenes of jealousy, angry suffocation and other accompaniment
such situations are normal and standard. Even for those
ladies who are considered to be the owners of cold blood
reptiles, and husbands – frigid statues, similar periods
pass painfully and painfully. There is always a place for the wounded
pride, if not love.
Поэтому сделайте дыхательную гимнастику,
count to ten, buy rags, get drunk with a friend and
cry out to her shoulder, after all. Just do not harass your
a man with ugly scenes, losing his face in his eyes and
remnants of warm friendships, if not sexual relations.
A rare exception: if your husband is a pathological masochist or
very peculiar extremal, then a slight beating, perhaps
will stir up past desires. But here you have to be very careful: these
games like not everyone, but two or three random “reconciliations” slightly
correct the weather in the house, but the overall climate will remain the same.
So, you look calm and ready to talk, plan and
correct the situation. Your heart beats evenly or almost exactly.
The fight for her husband begins!
What to do with yourself if the husband does not want you as
a woman
Why does the husband not want a wife?
The main reasons for the cooling of sexual ardor
Parental efforts
If you are a young mother, then the absence of intima is easily explained.
thing. Favorite, but restless baby requires all your attention,
and when the tired breadwinner comes home, then his father too.
Physical and moral strength is running out, and the bed causes
associations only with sound sleep. If you do not have a separate
childish then unaccustomed to little roommate
The newly-made father can completely withdraw. He’s in the arsenal and
so there is a baby, whimpering at the most inopportune moment, dying
from the tiredness of a spouse, who is not able to take care of herself,
Yes, God forbid, mother-in-law or mother for a thin wall. AT
Such a situation is the main thing – to survive, and not to libido.
• Such cases are not at all hopeless if your husband is not one of those
nasty breed that can stop loving because you are stout
after giving birth or changing the shape of, say, your chest. Similar
unfortunately, there are quite a lot of finished egoists. And how would you
it was not painful to lose such a husband, his loss will be your step towards
normal life.
But let’s be optimistic: your husband, although he does not want his wife, but
loves. Ask your mother, mother-in-law, neighbor, girlfriend or nanny to pick up
baby to yourself at least for the evening. ATоспользуйтесь этим временем
rationally: take a fragrant bath, tidy yourself up,
light candles and order dinner from the restaurant, if you do not have time
cook something edible. Seduce husband as fatal
woman from the movie. He will surely be stunned by surprise so much
that your victory should be easy.
A husband does not want a wife: stress, problems,
overwork
Often, it happens that a husband would like a wife, but he cannot:
constant fatigue after work, labor stresses and various
similar problems. AT большинстве случаев виновник такой обстановки —
Job. AT этом случае истощён муж физически и умственно. On his
shoulders – an unbearable burden of worries, “on the head” sits the bosses,
car knocks out the motor. Yes, the son of a blockhead brought home three
Deuces in mathematics – and in whom he is so stupid!
Most likely, he will withdraw into himself and any free minute.
prefers to spend alone – at the computer or with a book in
hands, not in bed with his wife. Because in such a state the thought of
sex is associated with another frightening duty – this time
matrimonial.
Seduce this man again, once you have it once
succeeded. Since he is still benevolent, respectful and
We love you, and after work you drag your mortal body home,
may not all be lost to you?
Husband has fallen out of love or simply does not want a wife
This problem is much more complicated than the previous ones: the husband does not want his wife because of
loss of attraction to her as a woman.
If he simply grieved, bored, he became bored yours
the same everyday life, your homely outfit in striped socks and
a loose gown, positive change can be achieved simply
changing the scenery. Then favorite stretched robe of times
great-grandmothers go to the closet or in the trash, socks take legal
place in the dresser, and they will be replaced by a glossy penyarchik or
knitted tight pantsuit.
And do not forget to get rid of hellish sloppy “horse” tail
on the crown, which nests on your head at home! AT нём нет ничего
sexual, so that convenience will have to sacrifice.
• He sees in what form you go to work: well-groomed and
attractive, in the best outfits. Is he husband unworthy though
would be the shadow of the beauty that passers-by and staff members see?
This case of male reluctance smoothly flows into another: you
so different at home and in people that the most native man in the world
just do not understand for what and for whom such a carnival, if
have to be alone with Baba Yaga. And you, it was
relaxed, decided that he loves you and such, you can not
try.
This myth is inspired to us by novels and serials: love and desire are necessary.
feed, provoke outbreaks, constantly stroke her
head and water nectar. ATозможно, тогда она и будет пускать корни
and wildly bloom according to all known patterns derived
old Freud.
Sexual apathy: the husband does not want organically
wife
He treats his spouse extremely warmly, both expensive and
to a loved one, but not as a sexual object
is considering. Anything takes place: friendship, understanding,
consent, but not attraction. It may even happen that alone
the thought of having sex with a wife-friend in a man will cause hostility.
Невозможно предсказать, по какому пути пойдут yours отношения в
such a situation. ATсё зависит от того, готовы ли вы, словно BUTссоль,
wait for scarlet sails by the sea on which there are no ships? Is it enough
you are patient to hope for success in a situation where your husband is not
wants you, and, most likely, no longer wants?
Муж не хочет wife из-за соперницы
Sex without love is devastating. This is unanimously declared by many
psychologists. If the husband no longer wants you, then maybe he just
fell in love. And it’s not about him having sex on the side,
just the objects of his languid sighs and serenades at the moment
is another woman. ATы же помните, как гордились его пылкими
views turned only on you.
• Do not look for a meeting with a rival, do not try to determine who
it is better. It will deprive you of your last strength, which is already undermined by a long
sexual hunger.
• Resolving this situation also depends on your willingness to wait
and forgive.
• ATлюбленность мужа может пройти. Romance – evaporate.
The course of life – to return to the old course.
Many real cases confirm this: husbands returned
in bed with his wives after the most dizzying novels.
ATозвращались, остывая после интрижки, и оставались в этой постели
forever, “nagulyav” ardor, experience, a variety of impressions “on
side. “
And for the spouses who know how to wait, the devotees again and again
sexually strong macho, ready for the exploits of sexual
front.
Муж не хочет wife, потому что не может её
to want…
AT болезни подобного свойства не каждый муж признается самому
yourself, not like you. These circumstances make men
withdraw into yourself much stronger than in the first cases. ATедь здесь
He, still young and strong, feels flawed, crippled,
inferior man. He is driven into a corner and “rewards” hard
depression inability to get aroused at all: not from your
erotic lingerie, neither from viewing a frank video, nor from
taking magic pills.
Diseases that affect the sexual function of men are divided
into two groups: general and special.
• Special – diseases of the reproductive system that are directly
affect male sexual capabilities.
• Common – the remaining ailments, which are due to pain and
discomfort dull intimate desires.
Fortunately, 21st century medicine can solve many problems. BUT
This case just belongs to the category of options when you can and
press down and present some ultimatum of moderate severity.
ATедь речь идёт не столько о сексуальном блаженстве, сколько о
health or even the lives of your soulmate.
Муж не хочет wife: общие рекомендации
What should be done in all variants of development
events? AT худшем случае вы просто улучшите свой внешний облик и не
lose self-esteem, at best – you will return everything to normal.
1. • Think carefully about the course of action and possible risks.
Forcing a husband or under torture to find out the reasons for his unwillingness –
dead end road. Hysterics roll up useless, threaten – even
worse.
2. • Talk with your husband calmly and thoroughly.
3. • If in his explanations you see the outlines of any of
described situations – act according to our advice.
4. • Regardless of the results of the “interrogation”, engage yourself.
ATспомните, когда вы последний раз посещали парикмахера, массажиста,
beautician. Sign up for a gym or just start. run
in the morning – perhaps even with her spouse.
5. • Try to penetrate it without signs of mental abuse.
world: go fishing or paintball together, yell together on
football stadium or hippodrome. ATероятно, мужу просто одиноко и
he does not want to sleep with a stranger who does not understand his tastes, a woman.
6. • Add to your life tenderness and romance. Diversify
Weekend and do not overload the duties already heavy
modern weekdays. Romantic evenings, surprises and relaxing
rest will help to melt not only his heart, but also some
The functions you are looking for are male.
7. • Tell your husband about your spicy fantasies. Sometimes
curiosity can conquer even offense, not to mention boredom and
despondency. Role-playing games within the tastes of two loving spouses
condemn perhaps the last prude.
8. • Feel that you are desired. AT конце концов, убедите в
this self – such insolence can be contagious!
Муж не хочет wife, но обязательно захочет
Being a desirable woman is a great science. ATо все времена
women who sell high-level desire owed
get an education, master the art of dance, music, special
by grace. Japanese geisha and French courtesans unceasingly
caring for the skin of the face and body, silky hair and softness
hands, pursuing a single goal – to like men.
The ability to charm and seduce her man again and again,
even imitating such seemingly unworthy persons – this
действительно огромная Job. But the result of such labor is worth it.
effort, isn’t it?
