Thu, Feb 25, 2016
Often during a quarrel, we tell close people a lot of hurtful
of words. Having calmed down, we try to correct the situation and forget that
A broken cup can not be glued. Top 10 phrases that can
destroy relationships.
1. “I’m fine.”
It is a harmless first look expression, is a trigger
crochet a lot of protracted conflicts. When everything inside is boiling, talk
difficult. And sometimes it seems that it is better to contain the inner wave of anger.
shouting “Get off me! I’m fine!” But unfortunately this is nothing
will not solve the existing problem. The more likely it is that
a man hearing this will turn his back and throwing: “Oh, well, since you have everything
okay … “- the simple walk from the room. And then what remains?
Start rattleting things in his back? Run after him with a scream:
“No, wait, we haven’t finished …”? All this will look stupid
after the words: “I’m fine.” Sit and swallow the tears
Cursing “manly callousness” is also not an option. In other words
when you have something wrong, any specifically expressed
A claim is better than the words “I’m fine!”.
2. “Vasya from your work and the house is better, and the car is bigger, and you
what did you achieve ?! “
In no case can not compare your man with others. You
does not even justify what you are just hinting at, what you expect from
husband of great success. In the overwhelming majority of cases
услышите ответ раздраженное: “Вот и иди жить с Youей! А от меня
leave me alone! “. And what should be done after the phrase? You will agree again in
dead end, which themselves have created.
3. “What can you do?”
Depending on the situation in which the given was spoken
phrases a man might regard this as an attempt to take him “on the weak”,
And this, in some cases, can end very badly. So if
the wife felt that during the quarrel her husband nearly hit her,
but he restrained herself, then the phrase that followed from her side:
can you !? “can provoke a real outbreak of violence.
4. “I had to marry another …”
Useless and offensive phrase, which usually begin
insinuations about the perfect life with a fictional man who and
He loves more, and his hands are golden. So you can not say
categorically. After all, you yourself decided to marry just
this man.
5. “You always do everything wrong …”
Don’t dress like that, don’t talk like that to my friends, don’t like that
drive a car With these words, you just poke a man face in
mud. Understandably, nobody would like to feel
sheer misunderstanding.
6. “As a man, you stand a little …”
This expression can destroy even a very tender relationship.
Reducing a man’s sexual self-esteem is the surest path to nedead in
intimate life.
7. “I have never loved you”, “I am fine without you
I will live! “
So you devalue the importance of a man in your life. Or rather
everything, from this moment on you will begin “life without it”.
8. “You’re exactly the same as your mother (father, brother …)”
If you insult the husband’s family, you’ll probably get into
disfavor And do not be surprised that your husband will stop taking you on
family dinners.
9. “Why do you need someone like that …”
Another phrase showing disregard for the man with whom
Do you live together. Believe me, there must be one that he
will need and such.
10. “No sex, if you do not do as I want!”
All women practice blackmail without thinking that
manipulate a partner with the help of sex – ungrateful and low
a business. Constantly hearing such phrases, the man will start looking for sex on
side and not the fact that he will not find.
