Fri, 17 Jan 2014
Мужчин с детства приучают к тому, что whims и обидчивость —
traits characteristic of women exclusively. They can
indulge, they can be forgiven. Men do not have this luxury
permissible. However, if your elect often finds fault with you
trifles and may, for no reason, stop with you
talk, then most likely you are faced with a rather rare
type – capricious man.
Most likely, the reason for this lies in the features of education.
If, for example, your chosen one grew up in an incomplete family, his mother could
to pamper and care for your child without any measure for long
years old. So he used to always be in the spotlight. Everything, that
It does not happen the way he wants, he calls the nursery
offense.
To put up with such behavior or not – to decide every woman
the most. But there is a danger that a capricious man with time
will turn into a home tyrant. Inattention to his person will be
perceived as a personal insult and an attempt to “revolution”. To break
Such a situation, if possible, is extremely difficult. But you can
to attempt.
Try to immediately explain that in living together responsibilities
have both, and they should be distributed equally. Attention also
should be shared at all. If you are tired, he is not entitled to demand
you have increased attention, you, too, need to rest. Categorically
declare: decided to start a family, then it’s time to realize that childhood
over, and no one else will resort to it for the first
I call. With his demands and grievances, he wounds not only you, he
gradually destroys your relationship.
All this is possible only if you are already married to
�”Capricious.” If your relationship is just in its infancy,
the chosen one has already managed to show himself as pampered and infantile
boy, it is worth thinking: are you ready for such a relationship?
Re-education, if it succeeds, can take a colossal
amount of time.
Is it necessary to spend your strength on a person who has not yet grown
(and, maybe, will not grow) to “adult” relationships.
�”Whims” of men may be episodic. For example,
when your elect believes that he lacks attention and care with
of your side. Try to analyze his complaints. Do they have
Are they grounded? If yes, then roll up your sleeves.
show your man how he is dear to you and valuable, listen to him
complaints (after all, after all, men are people too, with their
weaknesses), feel free to give good advice. Perhaps it
will help your lover to take himself in hand again to feel
you are the head of the family, and you are a weak woman who needs care and
protection. And everything will finally fall into place. However if
несмотря ни на какие усилия, жалобы и whims продолжаются, стоит
think about what you need: a man- “defender” or
man child?
