�“Don’t part with your beloved!” – urges the song from the popular
the movie. And what to do if you leave, after all, have to? You
break up or break up with you. How to survive this difficult
the moment when feelings and emotions are heated to the limit, when the heart
ready to tear to pieces, and the soul languishes from anguish and pain? what
But who can help and give advice? How to survive parting with
favorite? Here, as they say, there are three options for development
events.

Option One – mutual separation

This is ideal for both parties. Feelings were, but left,
no one is offended, quietly dispersed without scandals and
tears Even, perhaps, remained good friends. Seldom of course
but it happens. And if you can part like that, then this article
not for you. Although, no one can guarantee that with the following
partner parting will be just as smooth and calm …

Option Two – You are the initiator of the separation

Feelings have passed with you, your partner has become uninteresting, and maybe you
met another and loved him. In general, whatever one may say, but the former
favorite becomes an unnecessary ballast, from which it is necessary somehow
get rid of. It is unpleasant, of course, it is a pity for him even somewhere. But
their own feelings are not particularly affected, and survive
such separation can be easily. And if there is a number
The object of new love is generally wonderful. In such situation
one can only hope that the once beloved left is proud
and a noble man who proudly and nobly leaves without loud
and rude clarification of relationships.

If the “former” turns out to be an annoying sticky one, which detracts
forgive him and give him another chance or, worse, furious
Othello, who haunts you with threats and insults, is here
for neutralization of the former hero of your novel will not be superfluous
help of friends and acquaintances. They will help calm and distract.
unfortunate retiree. And at the same time make sure you did
the right choice, parting with him in time.

Мария 22 года, менеджер по развитию: «Был
the fear that the “former” will see me with another person to whom I am from
he was gone – and this fear haunted me for several
years old. Why was she afraid? Because I thought he would persecute us.
I told him at the breakup that he is my best friend, but we are not
can be together It was a terrible period. I’m still afraid
meet him in the subway … “

Дарья 30 лет, участковый врач: «Это было
on the eve of my birthday, he came to my parents (i have them
stayed at that time in another city). Gathered with thoughts and said
I want to part with it. I knew that I did not like him, but she hardly
did not cry. He apparently did not fully believe me and said that
when I return to my home, let’s talk. Then he began to blame that
because of me almost got into an accident. I felt hurt and somehow immediately
easier. Leaving my parents, I asked for the keys to my apartment,
referring to that in his apartment repair. Well, I gave it to him. And when
returned, found used condoms in her room and
glasses of wine. what это было? Small revenge? It’s funny … I’m with him
month did not speak, and then just began to communicate as
acquaintances.”

The third option – the initiator of the separation becomes your
favourite

This is the most unfavorable option ending the relationship.
It is very painful, insulting, bitter … Especially when to the very last
you notice nothing of the moment – everything was fine, and suddenly, like thunder
out of the clear sky … In general, the heart is broken, the soul is wounded, and
it seems that life is over and love will never be again.
It is very difficult to survive this stage – you have to wait for the feeling to
to the person who left you. And how much will it die – no one
is known. Some are released in a month or two, others through
half a year, and there are those whose love agony lasts for years.

Help in this situation can only you yourself. Each
Women have their own way to survive parting with their loved ones. Someone
goes to the spree, trying to fill with new impressions and emotions
emptiness formed in the soul. Someone налегает на сладкое, чтобы
fill in the unexpectedly lost hormone of happiness. Someone ищет
support from girlfriends.

Оксана 32 года, домохозяйка: «Клин клином
knock out. It is necessary to find a new one if the former did not appreciate it.
dignity. “

Аня 23 года, журналист: «Историй любви было
many, and the circumstances favoring separation were the most
different. I am very loving, so every time I thought it was
end! The end of my life, me … At such times I preferred
spending time with your best friend and eating lots of ice cream and
chocolate But страдания проходили также быстро, как и появлялась
new love! “

Татьяна 31 год, продавец: «Нас познакомил общий
friend, they served together at that time. Came to visit me. I
At first, he did not even pay attention to him. And when уходили он,
Suddenly, he kissed me, and in my chest something turned upside down. we
started dating, I was very happy. So lasted three
years but he does not decided to move to a new stage of our relationship.
He said he wanted to marry, but did not understand himself … For me
the separation was terrible: life seemed to end. I плакала не
ceasing, the pain did not pass for a very long time. Okay girlfriend
helped, all the time trying to distract from sad thoughts. Recently,
many years later we met again. He was very sorry that so offended
me, apologized even. In general, we remained friends. So, time
heals, I already know from my own experience. ”

Лилия 32 года, домохозяйка: «Расставание с
I had a lot of love for two weeks. The first week was crying, but
the second suffered. It was a pity rather myself. I старалась отвлечься.
Helped friends. The main thing is not to sit at home and not feel sorry for yourself: how can I
bad without him, but distracted from bad thoughts. I personally
helped. The main thing is to understand and tell yourself that the light on him is not
converged !!! And that, like him – a million !!! And I was getting
easier. And how it all began! Caring is very beautiful. As the saying goes,
all to my feet. And then he suddenly disappeared for two weeks. No answer
no greetings When I turned up, I was already married. He found out,
requested a meeting, but I did not want to. It was a shame: first disappeared, but
then, as if nothing had happened – let’s meet. I also knew that
If I see him, then I will not get married. He was not me
indifferent, but she also loved her future husband already. In general, I decided
forget the past, and with grief in half forgotten. Like this”.

In my personal opinion, and based on experience, the main thing in
how to survive parting with your loved one – this is exactly
endure the acute stage of pain and frustration. We must gain strength and
верить, что когда-нибудь станет easier. Be sure to be!
Believe that today’s separation is not the end, but the beginning –
new life, new relationships, new love. Believe me, that’s for sure
I know.

Comments

Tatyana A. 12/10/2016 Survive the parting with your beloved (as I then
it seemed) a man – it is very, very difficult !!! The main thing is not
eat yourself from the inside! Of course, the wound will heal for a long time, but
by all means keep and not fall into depression … Perhaps
someone will be useful article:
http://lady-ti.ru/problemy-otnoshenij/872-sotri-ego-iz-memory-kak-bystro-zabyt-muzhchinu
I тоже стала жертвой расставания.. инициатором, к счастью, тоже!
His frequent lies and unreasonable jealousy just got me !!!
Serious relationships can not be built with a very frivolous
man About a week I got calls, I was looking for a type
accidental meeting …. Almost 3 months washed my tears, did not want
see anyone, eat anything .. and in general live .. (((.. lost weight
very .. almost 5 years have passed since that time, but I still can not
to gain weight .. and the health was undermined well then .. Thank you
tremendous to those wonderful people who supported me in
that moment and literally forced to eat !!! They are mine
saviors !!! And even a huge, most immense thanks to my
to the present husband (then we only communicated on the Internet) .. How
His electronic words of support warmed my soul !!! I благодарна
fate, that we with him after six months of communication were able to meet and
see each other live .. I really liked him .. and it was
mutually! ..))) .. however, he did not immediately confess to me)) .. and I
I was afraid to let new feelings into my soul .. the distance for us is not
it was a hindrance .. yes, we rarely saw each other, but telephone conversations and
Internet correspondence had no end .. After a while he
confessed to me in love .. but I could not do the same, although everything
thoughts were only about him .. most likely I myself could not recognize
that I also love him .. and I told him that he told me very, very
I like it .. He did not rush me, he said that he understood everything, because he knew
almost everything about me (much more than the parents knew) .. You know,
I loved him with all my heart! And then I realized that never
really didn’t love anyone !!! only, sorry, you will not return
torn nerves and lost health .. ((((.. And my husband, I
I love more than life!!! And I do not need anyone else !!! Dear
the fair sex, try less to worry about
about the breakup of relationships! understand that poor health is very
difficult to recover, and sometimes it is impossible … take care of yourself !!!
Oh, how you need your health for babies! Let everything in your life
will be good!!! even wonderful !!! Tatyana A. December 10, 2016 Survive
parting with your favorite (as it seemed to me then) man – this
very, very difficult !!! The main thing is not eat yourself from the inside! Of course,
the wound will heal for a long time, but it is necessary to hold on in every way and not
get depressed …
(http://lady-ti.ru/problemy-otnoshenij/872-sotri-ego-iz-memory-kak-bystro-zabyt-muzhchinu)
I тоже стала жертвой расставания.. инициатором, к счастью, тоже!
His frequent lies and unreasonable jealousy just got me !!!
Serious relationships can not be built with a very frivolous
man About a week I got calls, I was looking for a type
accidental meeting …. Almost 3 months washed my tears, did not want
see anyone, eat anything .. and in general live .. (((.. lost weight
very .. almost 5 years have passed since that time, but I still can not
to gain weight .. and the health was undermined well then .. Thank you
tremendous to those wonderful people who supported me in
that moment and literally forced to eat !!! They are mine
saviors !!! And even a huge, most immense thanks to my
to the present husband (then we only communicated on the Internet) .. How
His electronic words of support warmed my soul !!! I благодарна
fate, that we with him after six months of communication were able to meet and
see each other live .. I really liked him .. and it was
mutually! ..))) .. however, he did not immediately confess to me)) .. and I
I was afraid to let new feelings into my soul .. the distance for us is not
it was a hindrance .. yes, we rarely saw each other, but telephone conversations and
Internet correspondence had no end .. After a while he
confessed to me in love .. but I could not do the same, although everything
thoughts were only about him .. most likely I myself could not recognize
that I also love him .. and I told him that he told me very, very
I like it .. He did not rush me, he said that he understood everything, because he knew
almost everything about me (much more than the parents knew) .. You know,
I loved him with all my heart! And then I realized that never
really didn’t love anyone !!! only, sorry, you will not return
torn nerves and lost health .. ((((.. And my husband, I
I love more than life!!! And I do not need anyone else !!! Dear
the fair sex, try less to worry about
about the breakup of relationships! understand that poor health is very
difficult to recover, and sometimes it is impossible … take care of yourself !!!
Oh, how you need your health for babies! Let everything in your life
will be good!!! even wonderful !!! ‘kbyf 12/02/2016 I’ve been abandoned
two days ago. I live as in a nightmare and can’t imagine how
live without it. It seems there are a couple of acquaintances, but they are somehow not very
drawn to me, and I to them – not really. Stupid to believe in miracle stupid
hope that he will return, and I … How a fool I sit and do not understand how
live without a man who for 3 years in a row was for me ALL and ALL.
I жила только им. This is crazy, I need a madhouse. I I know. Like me
I want to forget about him, my real dream is to find someone who loved
I would be more than he ever loved, who would be better than him. I
I know about all his flaws, but why I see them and do not
conclusions? Time would have passed soon. I очень хочу простить его,
let go on all 4 sides and not think about it. Diana is 22 years old.
22.09.2016 I не могу без него. I понимаю что погибаю. Already a week
gone and me worse and heh. Poli99 09/04/2016 Those who do not believe in
love believe me! Two years met a guy. Everything was good as well
then it as a substitute. Became strange and cold. I did not make contact,
I did not take the phone. In a panic, I began to look everywhere, how to be in such
situations. Has found on the Internet site http://www.pentakl-centre.ru/, and
on it is the wizard Voodoo Bonsam Nana. I wrote to him. He asked how old
my boyfriend, asked to tell about his friends. After my
story, the magician made a love spell. Now we are together again, love each
friend If there are difficulties in the relationship, write to the mage Voodoo
Bonsam Nana, and everything will work out for you!