Men’s fears

In our world there are certain prohibitions and stereotypes, one
of which – a ban on the manifestation of male emotionality.
It is believed that a real man should not show weakness
show your vulnerability and openly show your feelings.

These established stereotypes make men hold tight
feelings and experiences in themselves, as a result, they appear
certain fears.

Men themselves try not to use towards themselves
The concept of “fear.” In their opinion, it sounds like something effeminate.
Men are not afraid, they fear. So says most
male population, and covers this concept their true
fears

Why do men have fears?

In a society of claims and requirements for men are much more
rather than women.

A man should:

• be a good husband

• to be a diligent son

• to be strong,

• to be wealthy

• to be sexy

• be able to protect yourself and your woman

• be responsible for the family,

• be a good father.

This is only part of the fact that a man “must” in public and
moral laws. What if there are such high
requirements for male consistency? A man starts to move
forward in an aggressive way, trying to achieve goals. But
if it fails, a mass of complexes appears and
fears that he does not want to recognize.

The most common male fears

Men are more likely to recognize social fears in themselves: fear due to
the fall of the dollar, the fear of being out of work, the fear of poverty and
others.

In fact, men have much more fears and phobias.

• Страх собственной некомпетентности. In society
  There is a high level for male intellectuality. Believed
  that a man should be smart. Therefore, every man is afraid that
  will not meet this criterion.

• Страх сексуальной неудачи. According to statistics, 15% of men
  suffer from neurosis from waiting for a possible fiasco with intimate
  proximity.

• Страх показаться слабым. Our world is a constant struggle, in
  where the victory goes to the strongest. Man afraid to lose in
  life race and seem weak in the eyes of a woman.

• Страх сравнения с бывшим партнером. Often a woman does not
  deliberately begins to remember former lovers in the presence of
  your partner. For a man, it’s like stress, especially if he’s
  hears that the “former” was in something better than himself.

• Страх оказаться в смешной ситуации. Many representatives
  Strong sex react painfully to criticism, not
  to mention ridicule from the side. Therefore, the situation in which he
  may look stupid and ridiculous, terrifying man.

• Страх будущего отцовства. A man is not afraid to be a father
  he is afraid of being “not real” father. For a man is extremely important
  realize that he is the child’s biological father. And the thought that
  the real father of a child may be someone else, causing him
  periodic neurosis. That is why most men fear
  marry a lady with a child.

• Страх из-за не способности защитить семью. Believed
  that a real man should always be ready to physically protect
  your woman and children from external aggression. But сделать это в
  reality is not always possible.

• Страх повторить судьбу отца. If there were men in the family
  any problems: his father drank heavily or left his mother, then they
  will constantly disturb him. And if a woman starts talking:
  �”You’re the same as your father,” then the man begins to close more
  in itself and acquires complexes.

How to relate to men’s fears

A woman should understand that a man in a relationship will not
never talk openly about your fears. Therefore, when the beloved
is mistaken in something, it is not necessary to focus on this much attention
and constantly remind him of the error. Sometimes a problem needs to be done smoothly.
get around. The braver man, the more he is afraid to show
свои fears

All that a man does is for a woman. Therefore, it is important to him
Feel that a woman accepts him as he is.

Tex: Svetlana Ahi