Mon, Jun 30, 2014
Traditionally, male treason is more loyal than
female. Often women, justifying the “easy” behavior of their men
congenital polygamousness, close on their love hobbies outside
families.
By the way, men themselves are also inclined to consider their “hiking
left “like fleeting romances, already the next day forgetting about
what happened, and all the more, not taking it as a betrayal. Women in
their turn also try to relate to this philosophically that
sometimes causes men suspicion of the possibility of a similar
behavior of their precious half.
A man subconsciously projects his model onto a woman
own behavior, hence the fear of finding
confirm your thoughts. This is how the male fear arises.
before cheating. Most often he is disguised by jealousy, which is usually
manifested in a rather aggressive form. This man is like
trying to prevent the possibility of betrayal of his beloved. Why
men already treat their treason as easily as
they can’t even bear the thought of going to the “left” of their beloved?
To better understand the possible causes of adultery men and women,
should refer to our “biological” roots, to the base
instincts laid down by nature itself. And after looking
more closely to the behavior of animals, we will find answers to our
questions
Everything is quite trite and well known to many: the majority of males
animal species tend to polygamy. The reason for the ego is to leave
after as many offspring as possible. This also makes sense, because
if the individual has any unique qualities,
for example, resistant to certain diseases, then its task
spread them as wide as possible. And the more he leaves
heirs, the higher the chances of keeping an invaluable set of genes.
Females, by virtue of their limited fertility, choose
quality, not quantity of offspring. Therefore she stops
choice on any one partner, choosing it, however, from
the most extensive range. Her main task is to conduct
the most rigorous selection among males, not to produce the light
weak offspring.
For men, the lack of doubt about their
paternity. According to psychologists, even if a woman is only once
was convicted of treason, her man suspicions that he might
brings up someone else’s child dramatically increase. Confirmation of such
suspicion is one of the strongest insults of the self of the representative
strong sex. A man feels his secondary, is not created
the feeling that he was deprived of the opportunity to extend his own kind.
Such thoughts provoke in men the fear of betrayal and burning
jealousy.
Psychologists are convinced that by mutual consent of the spouses
take some mutual actions to prevent mutual
страха before cheating. Experts cite a number of tips that
help partners better understand each other, and maybe
prevent possible betrayal.
1. First of all, this is a frank conversation with each other on this
subject of treason. How valid is it? What will mean to you
fact betrayal partner? What consequences will entail
what happened cheating? Answers to these questions will help you better understand
feelings of each other.
2. Diversity in sexual life and maintaining emotional
intimacy between spouses contributes to a lack of interest
in the partner on the side.
3. During the crisis of one of the partners (at work, with health
etc.) it is necessary to provide him with psychological support.
4. It is especially important to try to overcome the egoistic and
consumer attitude to the partner. You can not only “take” from
partner without a return, sooner or later it will lead to a search for more
caring and attentive partner on the side.
