Wed, Aug 13, 2014
Workaholism for men is a fairly common phenomenon.
since it is on their shoulders responsibility for financial
family well-being. Hard work takes a lot of time, effort, and
energy. There are several types of male workaholism, with each
of which it is quite difficult to get along and for each of which
There are different forms of struggle. Consider some of them.
There are two forms of workaholism. At first, workaholians dance
under the tune of the authorities, perform a huge number of tasks, fearing
To lose a job. In this case, the wife should adjust
the husband’s self-esteem, convincing him that this work reduces him, takes
precious time that he can spend with his family.
There is another category of workaholics – they are fanatics of their work
they themselves consciously spend most of their lives on work. TO
these people most often include scientists, programmers, creative
personality. In this scenario, the wife is likely to have just
reconcile with the situation.
To determine whether a man is a workaholic, much
not necessary. Just ask yourself: how often does he think about work,
if she dreams of him, is he ready to sacrifice his family for the sake of work,
Does he agree to all the tasks that are assigned to him? TOроме того,
workaholics very rarely take time off, and his workaholism often
say friends and acquaintances. If all the answers to the questions are positive,
This is a sign of a classic workaholic.
Based on this, you should decide what to do next.
After all, so that life with such a person does not turn into
quarrels with reproaches need patience and willpower. For
reworking a workaholic, raising his self-esteem, distracting from
thinking about work will take a lot of effort. First need
make his life outside of work interesting.
For начала стоит представить себя на месте трудоголика,
feel how much strength and energy takes work. So
Thus, it will be understood that you should not load your husband petty
household chores, which is quite under the power of the female hand.
A lot of effort the male half of humanity puts
listening to “women’s” stories about manicures, diets, fashion boutiques and
gossip. However, girlfriends are quite suitable for this occupation, mother
or sister. For мужских ушей намного приятней будет очередное
declaration of love, gratitude for his efforts, pride for him.
It would not be amiss to take an interest in affairs at work, to raise topics, to
which husband shows interest (fishing, football, cars m
etc.).
Strengthening the desire of an ardent worker to run to the family sooner will help
pleasant, cozy atmosphere in the house. TOогда жена встречает мужа с
work with a smile in a clean house, and the kitchen has a pleasant aroma
dinner, then no workaholic will exchange this for loaded
work While the husband is in a state of euphoria from “snacks”,
it’s time to call him in for a serious conversation. Do not be afraid
talk about your experiences, share your concerns
family relationships. Claim to invest in family
a lot of effort, feed it with positive emotions, conduct
free time together.
Love and understanding of the principles of a harmonious family,
help the union to be persistent, despite any obstacles.
TOомментарии
Larisa 08.20.2016 Thanks for the article! My husband disappears all the time.
at work, I even began to suspect him of bad. A couple times to
I came to work: when I remember, it becomes the most ridiculous! And then
I found a way out: I found an Anderson Cafe for daddies: it’s pretty there, chess,
the bike is real and the interior is very calm. And she offered her husband
once a week after work, relax together in this cafe … And
little by little he began to switch to me. TOак раз вы
write about the cozy atmosphere … If this article came to me
earlier, it would be easier, well, and so – she came up with herself. Now we have
family tradition: every Wednesday we are in a cafe. And Anderson for Dads –
really quite nice place!
