How to get along if you are completely different?

Sun, 02 Mar 2014

You are an optimist, he is a pessimist; you are a choleric, he is a phlegmatic person; you
— романтик, он — реалист, you любите шумные вечеринки, он
prefers a secluded and relaxing holiday. Такие разные, но you
always together

С одной стороны это здорово, что you так не похожи друг на друга,
and on the other hand, you constantly have quarrels and
disagreement.

As you know, opposites attract. We are partners
looking for qualities that we lack. People are looking for each other to
bring balance and harmony into your life.

A relationship with a “not like” person can teach you a lot.
The main enemy of such a pair is jealousy. In such a relationship
the main thing is to take the right position and learn how to find
compromises.

Do not arrange a battle of intellects

You graduated from university, and maybe two, and he is a regular driver with
secondary special education. Либо наоборот, он — youпускник
престижного ВУЗа, а you считаете, что образование не так важно для
successful and comfortable life. В любом случае, you — разные. One of
reads you smart books, interested in painting, theater, and another
prefers to sleep in free time, play computer games
play or sit with friends.

Ваше окружение все чаще удивляется, как you можете жить вместе,
ведь you — абсолютно разные. But people say: “The main thing is to
the man was good! ” And it is right. If a man is attentive
treats you, extends a helping hand in times of need and
утверждает, что you — смысл всей его жизни, то насколько важно,
Did he read Shakespeare in the original?

You should not show your superiority in intelligence. After all
партнер полюбил вас не за youсшее образование и умные мысли.

When finances sing romances

What to do if you have a good job, a decent income,
decent housing and a beautiful car, and he huddles in a small
communal and rides a bike. Or the opposite is true. Man in this
the plan is simpler: he will take his beloved under his wing and she will no longer
will need nothing. The main thing is not to remind her who
youтащил ее из рутины финансоyouх проблем и сделал королевой.

More difficult is the situation when the lady is provided, and her
partner – the complexity of the money. Argued that a man should
earn more women, otherwise he will gain a foothold
�”Keeper”.

But что делать, если между вами вспыхнуло настоящее чувство и you
can not you without each other? Should not emphasize their dominant
position in finance and transform because of this lover in
henpecked Help him to show his capabilities, and everything can
change beyond recognition. A real man can’t last long
be financially dependent on women, especially if
will feel a constant monetary superiority over him.

Career issue

Если you — карьеристка, а он — свободный художник, или, наоборот,
the main thing here is not to drag your partner to your side. You
make a career, and he – a creative business. And everyone feels
good In addition, it has a positive effect on your relationship:
он может развлечь вас после тяжелого трудового дня, а you сможете
teach him composure at crucial moments of life.

What is dinner tonight?

When one of the partners constantly fills the refrigerator, and
the other continues to dine at the cafe, certain
disagreement. But while such differences are perceived as easy
dispute, turning into hot sex, problems can be avoided. But
serious conflict in this area can destroy relationships.
Therefore, it is important to find a compromise: in the morning you can have breakfast
at home, and in the evening arrange dinner in a cafe.

The main advantage of relationships of different people is their training.
tolerance. Sometimes a partner may change his “faith” and
adapt to your life views. But разве это интересно?
The difference of characters – the main highlight in personal relationships.
It is possible to combine the incompatible, the main thing is that the partners themselves
they wanted it.

Text: Svetlana Ahi

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