ATт, 30 авг 2016 Автор: Автор: ГалинаPravdina
I stood in line at the supermarket checkout, a girl stood behind me
not much younger than me (well, maybe from the strength of the year by 3-5). To her
her companion approached and she, pointing to me, told him: “Here,
stand up for this woman! ”I was already distorted by these words. howая
I am a woman to you! Well, think, I ran out to the store not made up,
and that from the fact that I looked like a slight bloom of exhaustion from
washing-cleaning-cooking-seat with children! This is not a reason.
call names!
This rarest case occurred to me almost a year ago, but
I still remember that day as a nightmare, and since then I have been walking
to the store just after looking in the mirror for
subjectively objective assessment of their appearance.
And here is another case that I witnessed. In shopping
the center, the cloakroom attendant (she looked like 60-65 years old) took the top
clothes from visitors. A man of about 40, holding out his coat,
обратился к ней: «Девушка, возьмите, пожалуйста!» «howая я вам
girl! – angrily cloaked the cloakroom attendant. – I’m a grandmother already! What the
it’s a habit to call girls to death! ”Long after that
grandmother-cloakroom attendant could not calm down, everything is dissatisfied
muttered to herself.
Familiar situations, is not it? And the trouble is that we have
There is no generally accepted form of addressing a woman or a girl. AT
England – Mrs. or Miss, in France – Madame or Mademoiselle, in
Germany – Frau (formerly unmarried people turned to Fraulein, but now
this appeal is outdated and is already used with irony), in Spain –
senora or senorita. But in Russia – …
The October Revolution, along with the destruction of the royal regime
abolished and used forms of treatment of the time. ATместо
polite and respectful “madam”, “madam” or “young lady” all
became impersonal and floorless “comrades”. Soviet Union
the ill-fated “comrade” in the form of an appeal to women has also collapsed
safely sunk into the summer.
And how now in modern Russia appeal to a woman? ATот
what forms researchers have identified.
Beauty! – Familiarization by
мужчин.Женщина! -Sporemont, often causes
негодование и протест.Гражданка! -Official
обращение, чаще используется полицией.Тётя!
Grandmother! – Используется детьми.Доченька!
Daughter! – Appeal from the elderly
людей.Мать! – Rough, to the elderly, simple
женщинам.Сестра! Sister! Countrywoman! –
Фамильярное обращение, чаще со стороны мужчин.Голубушка!
Pretty! – More often by older people, or as
фамильярное.Мадам! – Используется в речи
representatives of the older generation
интеллигенции.Дама! – Mostly used with
негативным оттенком.Сударыня! -Обращение,
used with a good attitude, respectfully,
(устаревшее).Госпожа! – Чаще используется в
official addresses (outdated).
Yes, they say, with all the richness of choice, another
there is no alternative. It turns out that we can only return to
obsolete and almost forgotten appeals of royal times? To this
find out we conducted a survey among our readers. ATопросы
asked the following:
ATопрос 1: how вы предпочитаете, чтобы к вам обращались на улице
(in the store, anywhere) strangers?
ATопрос 2: how чаще всего к вам обращаются, и какое обращение вас
most annoying?
ATопрос 3: how вы относитесь к обращениям: мадам, дама, леди,
young lady, madam?
AT результате опроса выяснилось, что наиболее приемлемы либо
appeal “girl” or impersonal: “sorry”, “sorry”
�”please”. Dulcedo, 23 года:
�”I prefer that the treatment of a stranger begins with
фразы “Прошу прощения..” ну и далее “ATы”, без уточнений а-ля
“девушка”Кристина, 20 лет: «Usually
they say – “Sorry, girl …” It’s quite me
устраивает».Александра, 27 лет: «С фразы
“Прошу прощения…” или “Извините…”, на ATы. If you want to
the concrete definition of the floor, the better course “Girl”. “
Most respondents are categorically outraged by the treatment.
�”Woman” or when strangers turn to “you.”
Лилия, 33 года:«Бесит, когда говорят
woman. I am not yet at that age to hear in my address
«женщина»!»Ксюша, 39 лет: «Женщина! Oh,
would kill! Fortunately, this is not often
слышу».Анюта 27 лет: «Раздражает, когда
start poking or touch
руке!»Анна 30 лет: «AT последнее время
began to call a woman, and it is said such aunt for whom
я еще явно girl! Although, in principle, for example, in the hospital
the medical staff addresses to all the woman and this is somehow not annoying.
But on the street, when a woman is obviously much older, then somehow
unpleasant. Although between us, what offense? Thirty years, two
children, clearly no longer a girl … “
Regarding appeals “madam”, “madam” or “young lady” opinions
divided. Young readers aged 17-29 consider
such appeals are strange, ridiculous, or even annoying.
Анюта, 27 лет: «Отрицательно отношусь
to similar appeals, because now it is more like a familiar one
subtext rather than polite appeal to
женщине/девушке».Александра, 27 лет:
�”” The Lady “and” Madam “now sounds very familiar and
somehow dismissive. Madam, modemuazel and lady – like, but
it will never take root on the Russian
почве».Heron, 17 лет: «На мой взгляд,
sound weird. But against nothing
имею».Mysia, 22 года: «Раздражает когда
treat these idiotic ladies, madam maid
Боярыня…»Юлия, 22 года: «Очень
annoying, again for some reason associations – as if they are turning
престарелые маньяки».Aknes, 21 год: «Меня
amuses when in this way, or rather “madam”, turn
женщины.AT большинстве случаев негативно отношусь к “барышня”, сразу
Associations emerge from those moments when the ignorant want to poke
your nose for something. “
Representatives from 30 years and older to such forms of treatment
are, on the contrary, quite tolerant and calm, and even welcome
them as the most acceptable.
Светлана, 37 лет:«Лучше “сударыня”.
Lady and lady in our cultural space for some reason
perceived as something mocking and derogatory. Usually
utter such phrases with a certain
насмешкой».Лариса, 32 года: «Так
appeal extremely rarely. So rarely can it be said at all
do not appeal. It is more suitable for foreigners. But, in general,
such an appeal I have contempt or irritation, probably not
вызывало бы».Екатерина, 33 года:«Меня
Mrs. did not call, I would probably have precipitated. BDSM
some kind of funny of course … Well, again, if this is an appeal
somewhere at the hotel at the reception, I would take it normally – with
etiquette you can not argue, but if in a tram – it means they prank me, then I
would not like it. In a word, such appeals are good if
уместны».Faustova, 46 лет: «Эти слова
I perceive with humor, sometimes I hear and answer those
same-sovereign. “
Summing up our little research, you come to
the disappointing conclusion that they are acceptable to all, polite and
respectful forms of appeals to Russian representatives
Unfortunately, we do not have the beautiful half of humanity. how же
then be?
I propose to submit this issue for consideration in our
State Duma! Experienced elects are sitting there
people. ATот пусть они в своей Думе думу думают, может, что-нибудь
yes come up with …
Comments
Sergey (53 years old) 11/13/2016 “… experienced in their business …” (?)
“…избранники people.” (?!) “… что-нибудь yes come up with …” (?!!) –
I doubt very much !!. And the topic is really important and not only
regarding appeals to the beautiful half of humanity. I personally
inclined to option – “madam-sir”. A bore 02.05.2016 From what
Is “woman” an insult or neglect? Strange to read
now generally accepted revolutions like “a girl with two children” …
mmmm 03/24/2016 Sunk into oblivion. Summer is such a river of oblivion in
mythology. Galina 02.26.2016 Yes, there are so many good ones here
appeals, what to say, if we have nothing just radically
wrong! A “young lady”, “madam”, “lady” – just need to get used,
it sounds very nice. Just forgotten all good and
cultural, but by all means everybody’s grandma goes there,
“woman”. It’s a shame when you poke your age or
hint that you have had the experience of sexuality. Yeah then
Soviet “friend” is better! (although it is bad, but “granny” is the same
Generally otpad and horror).
