Wed, Jan 22, 2014
No matter what they say, friendship between a man and a woman
exists. If you and your friend are bright representatives
such a relationship, then you are definitely lucky. But physiology is not
cancel. You often spend time together, it suits you perfectly
you as a companion, you are attracted to his human qualities. One
in short, you are on the edge all the time. It is necessary to appear droplets
cravings, and voila, you fell in love.
There is nothing wrong. The toughest couples are those in which
partners are friends. However, there is always danger
that the love relationship for various reasons may end.
And then you lose both a lover and a friend. Therefore you need to firmly
consider whether to take such a risk. Maybe it’s all over
only in hormones played out? You haven’t had a man for a long time, and
Naturally, the first to catch your attention will be your friend.
You trust him, it is easy and pleasant to spend time with him. In such
It is better not to force the event. Try to find a partner
for close relationships, albeit briefly, just to calm down and
look at the situation with a sober look. For a time limit communication
with a friend, especially heart-to-heart talk. It is possible attraction
will pass.
It is quite another thing if you have already changed more than one partner, but
continue to sneak for the best friend. Dare, perhaps
this is the same person you will spend your whole life with.
Where to start, so as not to scare a man and not to destroy
delicate balance? In no case can not dramatically change the behavior.
and “include” all known women’s tricks that attract
opposite sex. As a person, you are completely satisfied with it,
Now you need to find out if he sees in you a sexual object. Everything
options are reduced to the fact that he should see you in a new image.
Invite him, for example, to the club under the simple pretext. Do you want to
dance and relax, and with single girls in such
Institutions are constantly acquainted with a well-defined goal.
Ask him to play the role of your boyfriend for one night. And already there,
after a couple of cocktails and incendiary dances, drop the phrase: “I
I’ll just say something stupid, but if you really were my boyfriend,
that would be fun. ” Or even more boldly: “Damn it, if I
I did not value our friendship, I would suggest you now go to
to me”. True, there is a danger that he will immediately and seriously agree;
men are generally easy to friendly sex. The question is very
slippery, you must ideally know the person to decide – rush with
head into the pool or, laughing, refuse. Anyway,
what you want is achieved – he realized that he is attracted not only as
friend, you, in general terms, understand that he is about this
thinks.
And then you can start the standard flirt. Neat, thin, not
imposing, but not letting relax. Give both him and yourself time
think about everything. Perhaps during this period both of you will find your
halves, and everything will be resolved by itself. Or decide to go
to a new level of relationships.
In the end, we live once. Lose maybe better
a man of his life because of his own fears and
indecision – such a luxury you can not afford.
