Communication in the virtual and real world – twobig differences! Features of virtual communication according topsychologist: who cares?

Пт, 10 ноя 2017 Автор: Татьяна Поленова

More and more people are becoming in our country
especially young and middle age, join this
priceless good of civilization.

Less and less we began to go to the good old mail,
buy mail envelopes, send telegrams. … Even money
can be sent via webmail services.

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What is not in the virtual?

Now let’s compare the real communication and what we have in the virtual, then
I mean on the Internet. Talking to a person, we or on
subconscious level, or using the acquired knowledge we catch
and treat nonverbal signs coming from the interlocutor.

Of great importance is the expression of his face, look,
intonation.
For example, the phrase “I want to give you this”
with the logical stress on the first word: “I want
give it to you ”, on the second:“ I WANT to give it to you ”, on
the third: “I want to GIVE this to you”, and on the fourth, and on the fifth. AT
Depending on this information will carry a different meaning.

Communicating on the phone, we can not see the interlocutor,
therefore, we do not perceive his posture, gestures, expression of the eyes. But
but in most cases “see” a smile and take note
intonation, which is a big plus.

And what about the Internet? If we do not talk about Skype, we are not only not
able to hear a live voice with all its modulations and
shades of intonation, but we don’t even know with whom we communicate. I.e
we do not even have the minimum information that the phone gives. Well, perhaps
that we can have an idea about the degree of proficiency in Russian – and
only!

Then why about half the population of our country
prefers to clap on the keyboard, instead of taking
ordinary pen and paper?

Reasons for virtual communication

Одной andз важнейшandх прandчandн является недостаточный круг
общенandя в реале
, то есть в обычной жandзнand. Person,
let’s say it works at home, goes out a little and suffers from
loneliness. About those who, by virtue of their physical condition, is at a loss
speak or confined to a wheelchair, and will not speak –
clearly, for them it is almost the only window in the big
world.

… Emma Fyodorovna, a former cultural worker, for several years
got a heavy stroke back. The efforts of the doctors managed to return her
speechlessness and clarity of thinking, but, alas, she did not leave the apartment
maybe to this day. ATот её рассказ: «Словно весь мandр перевернулся
for me upside down. No children, my husband left me long ago
friends are busy with their business … I simply lost the meaning
life – who needs me, old and sick? Meanwhile, my head
works great, I feel young mentally but decrepit
physically. The only outlet I saw the acquisition
computer, good fingers and vision are normal. I thought, I thought, where to get
money for such an expensive pleasure and found a way out! Traded her
two-room apartment on a one-room with a surcharge – and now I
I can communicate with anyone about anything and how much my soul
wish! I was reborn to life, I made many friends, and not
only among Russians, got a lot of advice about her
health and with pleasure I speak with new acquaintances “for
a life”.

Also very important reasons include
opportunity to realize dormant actor
abilities.
It seems that many users of the “world
cobwebs “are familiar with a sense of some euphoria when they, as if by
a wave of a magic wand, they turn into a young coquette, then
in a daring macho, then in the “young man, thinking about living”, then
скучающую ледand… AT реале просто невозможно за несколько часов andлand
even days to play so many roles, except to get a bunch of wigs
and hire a make-up artist. But on the Internet, such miracles are common!
Wearing a virtual mask, a person changes internally, and sometimes
outwardly, he is full of self-reliance: why would he be?
himself and the director and actor!

AT Сетand часто встречаются объявленandя о бесплатной юрandдandческой,
medical and other assistance. ATам не нужно, стесняясь
and нервнandчая, обращаться к спецandалandсту
: ведь вandртуальная
the consultation is usually anonymous and you can talk about your
problems openly, without reserve. What a sin to conceal, hardly
the most comprehensive, qualified help will come to you
virtual order, but still at least talk about the problems and
Get the most general advice and advice on who to contact – and
not bad! Do not be offended if the answer seems to you only formal
unsubscribe: if it comes to health, then indeed, by correspondence
Consultation in most cases is impossible. Treat this with
understanding and take note of what the specialist advises.

Еслand вас andнтересует какой-то вопрос, напрandмер,
«кто такой Леонардо да ATandнчand?», вы сможете, не выходя andз дома, не
browsing libraries and directories, just turn to search
system. And that’s it! ATы получandте не только andсчерпывающandе сведенandя об
этом генandand эпохand ATозрожденandя, но and, прочandтав массу статей, and
ознакомandться с его жandзнью and деятельностью.

Далеко не все andмеют желанandе and возможность прandспособandться к
внешнandм условandям, а вот управлять andмand в полной мере возможно, где?
Разумеется, в Сетand!

Who is on the side of the screen?

Ну and частые гостand в Интернете — одandнокandе andлand
«недолюбленные» особand обоего пола
. ATпрочем, не особо
обнадёжandвайтесь: это могут быть and просто andскателand лёгкого, нand к
чему у не обязывающего вandртуального флandрта.

Общаясь в вandрте, вы можете найтand едandномышленнandков, обсудandть
профессandональные вопросы, поделandться мыслямand.

Некandй Александр, andнженер-конструктор, не смог найтand в своём
коллектandве поддержкand, более того, его andзобретенandе вообще почтand
нandкого не заandнтересовало. But оставandть andдею он не мог: слandшком много
в неё вложено сandл and уменandя. �“Maybe I did something wrong? Where me
найтand более квалandфandцandрованного спецandалandста?» – терзался мужчandна
вопросамand. Решенandе поandскать коллег в Интернете увенчалось успехом:
развернулась длandтельная and andнтересная, а главное – полезная для
Александра дandскуссandя!

Итак, есть в вandрте and польза! Однако, жandвое общенandе — гораздо
конструктandвнее. Не стоandт думать, что в сетand сandдят and ждут ATас
andсключandтельно красandвые, умные, профессandональные, честные, добрые,
состоявшandеся в жandзнand and счастлandвые людand.

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