An obsessive fan, or what to do whenadmiration turns into obsession

Thu, Dec 15, 2016

Many women want to drive men crazy, captivate their
beauty and cause genuine admiration. But what if
a man’s interest in you is becoming very intrusive and a fan
haunts you, bothers you with flowers, calls, messages and
other signs of attention, begins to annoy you?

Most often, women who do not find
have enough strength to say “no”, or the desire to prevent them
flirt, as well as pity for a man. This is what serves
the reason that the man does not leave her alone, generously presenting
woman feeling guilty and uncomfortable, because he perceives such
indecision as hope that a woman is not against
relationship and communication.

If a man doesn’t like you, it’s best not to give him
the opportunity to think that you like it. The main thing is not worth it
sorry, because with your pity you still can’t be happy
yourself or him. Often the task is complicated by the fact that intrusive
fans are always overly helpful. If you need something
bring, take, help, they are always at your service, even if you
don’t ask for it. And after performing the order, they are invariably, as
would casually hint at the continuation of a relationship or start
confess your love and again put you in an awkward way
position.

Attacks of a dedicated fan are always difficult for a woman to
psychologically, so initially you should not take from
him gifts and courtship. The best strategy is calm, polite.
and clearly explain to the person that he should not hope and spend
your time in vain.

But it happens that an obstinate fan of any talk
and persuasion is not catching and convincing. So you can go to
action. Examine the person, find out what exactly is his
attracts you so much, and what he may not like. The most
time to show imagination and present to him the other sides of your
characters that he might not have suspected. You can also
make the fan see you with another man. It may
scare him or upset him.

However, before ruthlessly getting rid of the obsessive
fan, think carefully and make sure that he is not
makes you a certain, hidden sympathy. It happens that not
looking closely at a man can make good
man, the very one about whom you will regret the whole
a life!

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