Вт, 10 ноя 2015 BUTвтор: Ирина Нагорняк
Women tend to think of men as those who are always
I want sex.
Therefore, when a beloved husband begins to shirk satisfaction
wife, she has a huge pile of suspicions and mass
complexes.
How to find out the reason for the sudden disappearance of sexual
desire and how to resume intimate life? Now with everything
we’ll figure it out.
Contents
He does not want me – what is the reason?
The first thing to do is find the answer to such an urgent
the question “Why?” How do you want to have such
instructions to every male representative wherever
indicated in what situation what causes a mechanism breakdown
look for and how to repair them. But men are not robots and instructional.
cards are not attached to them, and therefore have as always
understand everything yourself.
Reason number 1 – routine in bed
Well, who among us has not heard that intimate life can be
monotonous? Perhaps everyone has heard about this, but not many spend
some analogy with your own life. It is not enough just to satisfy
physiological needs, it is necessary that sex life
also implied your intimacy. If sex is for a man
became just a routine duty, sooner or later he will begin
avoid this process, justifying it with standard excuses
like “tired”, “want to sleep” and so on.
Reason number 2 – the extinction of passionate fervor over
of time
At the beginning of the relationship, virtually all couples have a violent intimate life.
Partners can not enjoy each other and the question “Why
man does not want sex? “people do not even come to mind. But with
time, the husband gets used to the measured rhythm of life, which in
in some cases it adds some kind of despondency and eliminates
every sexual desire.
Reason number 3 – fatigue, nervousness
It turns out that “I’m tired” excuse is not always excuse, and sometimes
very weighty argument. Problems at work quite often
affect the family life of people, including sexual
relationship of spouses. The fact is that many men do not know how
leave these very problems at work and stubbornly drag them into the house,
because of what constantly can not afford to relax and devote
time beloved woman.
Reason number 4 – quarrels, scandals
Representatives of the beautiful half of humanity adore
watch movies / read books where the scandal of spouses
ends no less stormy scenes in bed. But life draws
several other perspectives and instead of crazy sex you
get offended husband and a wall of silence for a week.
Reason number 5 – the difference in biorhythm and
temperament
The spouses have a differently planned day, their lives in different
biorhythms, so when one craves sex in the evening, the other,
Coming home from work, he falls asleep and his sexual desire
appears only in the morning.
Also temperament plays a significant role. One has enough sex
in a week, and someone is not satisfied with everyday sexual intercourse. Here
again the first years of your family life come to mind and
a hysterical statement arises, “But before that, everything was in
okay! “It plays a role that you have already got accustomed to each other,
moderately enjoyed each other and now begin to adapt
to a promising and long family life where everyone should be
comfortable
Reason number 6 – the long absence of sex
Psychologists recommend practicing abstaining from sex in
for a week, maximum two in order for sexual desire
increased and sexual acts became more vivid. But some couples
because of the eternal fuss and employment prolong this period for a month, and then
and more, which is fraught with negative consequences. Spouses in this
case, the desire for sexual activity may disappear altogether, because
have some comfort – morning breakfast on the go, all day cares,
return home in the evening and immediately apply your head to the pillow
or stick in front of the TV-friend’s screen. Sex, as we see, in this
list is not included.
We begin to build sex life
For a start, it would be nice to just talk to your spouse, and this
should not be a conversation dash, please go to bed, and frank
conversation to understand what is your obstacle to
sex life. However, it is not necessary to impose on such a conversation too
so much hope. It is unlikely that a man himself will be able to clearly define
what prevents him from a broken rhythm of life or tells you that
your biorhythms do not match. So you need to do something.
based on their own considerations. When the reasons are clear, it’s about time
proceed to their elimination. So what can you do?
• We arrange a romantic evening
We leave children with our grandmother, prepare a delicious dinner, light candles
and all according to the standard scenario, non-standard is more important
continued But this should be done on weekends when the husband is free and
rested, not when he returns home almost at midnight,
and here you are in the seductive peyuarchik expect passionate
evenings
In such time can not talk about work, household chores, etc.
Talk about small things, remember good moments from the past,
turn on nice relaxing music. The purpose of this evening –
remind a man of his direct duties in bed as well
remind how much pleasure brings sex with his beloved
a woman.
• Make a favorite massage
Imagine a calm evening, delicious aroma aromas,
spreading around the room, your hands gently massage your body
beloved man. This process should be fun.
both of you. Such a session cannot be completed differently except
having sex
• changing
It’s not about the fact that the husband stopped wanting you because of some
imperfections in the appearance or not make-up face. But to any
a man much more want to go to bed with a woman in
beautiful underwear, even if it leaves the body suddenly
beloved, rather than wearing ordinary black panties and
unremarkable bra. These are not such trifles, so
that in any of the listed cases, this moment is not to be missed.
worth it.
• seduce at a distance
If your husband does not tend to return home at 9 pm and
later, and he comes not very tired, it is possible in the late afternoon
start throwing sms to him on the phone in which to describe your
erotic fantasies. But this should only be done if
you are sure that her husband’s phone will not be in the hands of some of his
friend and you will not fall into an awkward situation.
• Breaking your own stereotypes
This method is suitable for pretty brave ladies. Perhaps your husband
accustomed to the fact that you are pretty shy, but it’s time to change, because
скромность в постели также неизменно отражается на sex life. BUT
Now we turn everything 180 degrees. For example, going to
some event, already leaving the house “tragically” declare that
forgot to wear panties. To the surprise of her husband and his words about what is necessary
to go home, answer that nobody cares about it anyway
will find out. Believe me, the night after this event you will remember
for a long time, it will bring some kind of pepper in your sex life.
• Sex in unusual places
Yes, sex in the sea or in the mountains – this is not fiction crazed
erotic people. This is necessary, especially when your attempts
to diversify sex life increasingly fail. Be not
the way your husband knows you. Seduce, forget the constraint, there is
only you two.
• Flirt
In the first years of marriage, having a flirt in a relationship
not being discussed. Of course the spouses are flirting with each other,
seduced by looks and random movements, but then it
may disappear. Did you find out about your relationship with your husband? Then
this method is for you. Try as much as possible to flirt with
beloved, gently take him by the hand, kiss and hug at the meeting.
All these trivia play an extremely important role because the intimate
life needs to be renewed in stages, and starting with flirting is excellent
the idea and the first step to violent sex.
Myths: why a man does not want sex
1. • He has a mistress
Oddly enough, but it is this thought that comes to a woman’s head.
first as soon as she realizes that sex in her life becomes
less and less. No, we are not trying to protect a man, among them and
Indeed there are many who are capable of treason. But do not need to
the very first suspicions of making a grandiose scandal and breaking dishes.
If you really want to, you can quietly view her husband’s phone,
watch his behavior. The main thing is not to cross the line and not
demonstrate your suspicions because if a man
really not guilty of anything and just get tired at work, your thoughts
about treason can seriously offend him.
2. • I do not
beautiful / seductive / attractive
This is another cockroach that is one of the first to visit the head.
unhappy with the sex life of a woman. Statistics says that about
70% of women are dissatisfied with their appearance. That is why reluctance
men have sex only adds to the wife very serious
complexes that are not so easy to get rid of. So arranged
women, to be self-confident and irresistible, they
be sure to hear the nice words in your address and see that
she is welcome.
But remember, dear ladies, this reason is not always
is an obstacle to a rich sex life, although
may be one of the factors. In this case, beauty salons,
fitness clubs and good clothing stores are waiting for you.
3. • You are no longer at that age.
The age limits for sex are very vague, so don’t
hurry to write off everything on the recent anniversary of her husband, he still can
be full of strength and health to satisfy your physiological
needs.
It is very important to always remember that sex is not only easy.
occupation in order to get a pleasant feeling, but also useful for
health and well-being thing.
It is not once proved that sex relieves headaches,
depressive state and also helps maintain the body in
good shape.
