Fri, 23 Jan 2015
The Internet is filled with various information on how to get married,
where to find a future husband and how to become happy in marriage. But all this
information, mostly calculated by girls or still unmarried
young women to thirty. In general, for those who have not yet been burned in
family relationships. And what about women who have behind their shoulders
failed marriage, children, and, finally, low self-esteem?
Agree to love a man and believe in a strong marriage for the first time
much easier than the second or even the third. But female happiness
everyone needs, no matter what experience behind them. So how
way you can erase the memories and love as if you
never hurt?
Do not dig much long in failure
Remember that the black bars in life we need in order
so that after them white will soon come. And failures are another
life lesson, realizing that you can move on. therefore
analyze the latest events of your life, draw conclusions, and
then do general cleaning in your heart and free
place for a new man, for new hopes and expectations.
If you haven’t completely “released” your former lover,
Believe me, the new young man will notice. Imagine that
The following relationship in your life is home. He has his own
architecture, its style, its builders. And you try it
build on the old foundation. Not only will the house be crooked and
ugly, so also the probability that he will fall apart much
more. Destroy everything to the ground, only then will you
build a new, strong and beautiful home, the house of your dreams.
Chat only with happy women
If possible, try not to communicate with divorced unhappy
by women. In this state, they will drive you further into depression.
The chance to build a new relationship in a similar company equals
to zero. Because, first of all, the feminist will finally be made of you.
Agree, no man will not like the angry at the whole world.
a woman who hates the male sex with all her heart. And secondly,
Remember that for the purpose of such a female group is not worth
the desire to marry you off successfully. On the contrary, they will be jealous and
envy your female happiness, not wanting to let go of yourself.
therefore разберитесь в своих желаниях. If your goal is
once again grind the bones of the former, then do not change the company,
but do not complain that you can not get married. If you want
forget about everything and build a new, clean and strong relationship, you
придется общаться только со счастливыми замужними by women. Exactly
they will prove to you with their lives that all is not lost, that the feminine
happiness exists and you more than anyone deserve it.
Do not hide behind the children
For many women, a very weighty excuse: “I can not once again
get married, I need children. ” It is not true. You need children more
than you to them. Just scary at first, once again to believe a man, once again
love and re-build relationships. Here you are hiding for children.
Believe me, you are doing them a disservice. Until
wait until the children grow up, they themselves already forget how to love.
You will be the one to blame the children for your best years.
And even worse, you will not be able to enjoy the happiness of your daughter or
son, when they build a happy family. Children in turn
they will reproach themselves for your loneliness, but do nothing about it
will be able to Remember, the worst thing for a child is to see mom.
suffers and realize that nothing can be changed.
If you still really love your children and are attached to them, and
most importantly, can not afford to enjoy life, make
this is for kids. So you will not, as you think, selfish. And your
the child will thank you later for not dumping him
load of responsibility for the unfolding personal life. Remember all
children dream of having a happy mom.
