Fri, Jun 20, 2014
Black or white – no matter what shade you are
ready to color the feeling of envy, to avoid its destructive power,
lowering self-esteem and negative influence on relationships with
surrounding people will fail.
An unpleasant phenomenon, ordinary envy can be quite
to explain. Women’s envy is just right to compare with a powder keg,
for an explosion that needs to be ready at any moment. If understand
the reasons for the envy of women to men is impossible, then for the ladies themselves in this
There is nothing difficult. Increased emotion affects
the emergence of a whole range of feelings, ranging from intolerance and
ending with the desire to humiliate in those situations to which a man
won’t even pay attention.
Such insignificant trifles, like a new handbag best friend
or a new outfit bought by her on occasion, cause not
only female envy, but also, much worse, negative
changes in the inner world of the envious.
This feeling is inherently destructive shade, since
a woman prefers to direct her energy to a constant search
The reasons for which you can find fault, wears in his beautiful
head cunning plans. Improving privacy, taking care of
currently a woman who is prone to envy substitutes for thinking about
tricks, as if it were more painful to “prick” the selected object. But
such things cost precious moments of life, strength and health.
A lot of unpleasant moments have to go through those who by will
The case came under the sight of female envy. In most cases
the victim is unaware that the taunts of a friend, ostentatious indifference
colleagues or gossip neighbors hide the most that neither
there is a banal envy. Moreover, to suffer in such a situation may not
only the one to whom all this caustic fuse is intended, but absolutely
strangers drawn into the pool of intrigue.
From all the above, the conclusion about the need for skill
to stand up to an overly envious person. Following
simple rules will help protect against their own destruction
a life.
1. First you need to get rid of the habit of telling everyone about
your achievements, luck, or large acquisitions. It will cut
list of reasons for envy.
2. The second rule involves frequent compliments to lovers
to envy. Since for the most part they consist of
несчастных, неустроенных, закомплексованных losers, то оказанное
внимание скрасит отчасти их неяркую a life.
3. If an envious woman hint that is not in your rules
similar behavior, if more often during conversations with colleagues
to repeat the thought of the ugliness of envy, the envious diminishes
desire to continue to behave in such a way, especially in plain sight
surrounding
4. A worthy answer, direct and frank, if possible with
with humor, show the lady all the absurdity of her claims and forever repulse
the habit of fouling.
