Why the problem of so-called love triangles is
so common? Moreover, for various reasons, more often this
�The “figure” looks like this: a woman, a man, and another woman. It seemed
what could be simpler than destroying this geometry: the husband must
make a choice, and if not – then one of the women needs to be
proud and leave. But everything is not so simple in life …
Why do we stay in love triangles and what is it
fraught with?
- Wife. If the spouse suspects or knows that
there is someone who is faithful but does not go anywhere (and this happens
pretty often), the reasons may be mass. And it’s not just about
banal “who needs me?”, “what about the children?” and “how to share
an apartment? Hand on heart – if a person does not want to be with
another person who is stopped by apartments and children? In fact
the wife most often loves the “good for nothing” and believes that he
ever come to their senses. And, I must say, not for nothing believes, because more often
just exactly what happens. As the saying goes, “when love
the triangle falls apart, everything is back to square one. ” But there is
the danger that a) one unbroken day, the husband still leaves and b)
feel like nothingness.
- Mistress. Let us be honest here as well: not
always mistresses – females and snakes in the trees, which
coolly trying to lead the father of the family. Often they too
love and suffer – because a man does not make the final choice,
but only promises. In addition, illegal love is sweet only the first
time, and then incomprehensible status and holidays alone begin
burden. This situation is fraught with two serious losses: time
and self esteem. Worse, it’s hard to decide. because
anyway, a man rarely leaves the family, and is he ready?
lover to take on such responsibility?
- The man. It seemed бы, уж он-то устроился лучше всех. what
Well, there are those whom the situation absolutely does not. But most
not so thoughtless and cynical, so suffer from remorse.
Many girls, reading this article, snicker: what is there for them
conscience?! And yet often for a man love triangle
it becomes difficult test, because he just can not
make a choice. And it’s not a matter of duty and “we are responsible for those
who tamed. Most often this means that a man is confused in
own feelings. In one of the songs, it says: “There is one love –
the one here and now, there is the other – the one always. ” And what
to choose? This is why many men prefer to let the situation go.
to drift and stay “in limbo”. What is the danger?
All three parties of the love triangle suffer (and if there are children
or married mistress – the number of characters in this drama
growing).
A love triangle is always difficult and painful. For all.
It would be better not to get involved in it. And if it happened, then find
a way to honor out of this difficult situation. True worth
note that the solution most often brings time – it will show,
whose feelings will stand the test, and whose will melt without a trace.