Tue, Apr 08, 2014
Unfortunately, feelings are not forever. Lovers not always succeed
overcome the trials that fell on their joint path. Cheating
quarrels, mashing of characters and new hobbies … – all this gradually
leads to parting. During this time, a lot of hurt accumulates,
omissions, disappointments that partners are at a certain point
spill over at each other. But it does not become easier. �“Parting –
little death”. Even if the initiator of the gap was a woman, she
for a long time, “grieving” for the past. It makes it difficult to move
Next, build a new relationship. The situation seems stalemate. And to
avoid it, you need to learn how to complete
relations.
�”Pros and cons”
Before taking a step, consider which way you want
go. Perhaps the decision to part was spontaneous and worth
drop emotions and think again. If you are completely unbearable
be near your man, do not rush to show your
dislike Prepare yourself for a calm, constructive
talk.
Time and place
For the conversation, choose the day when you and your man will be free
from problems and working fuss. So that nothing and nothing distracts and
confused you with thoughts. It is better to have a conversation outside the house: in a cafe,
Park or some other place. If only the situation was
calm, inviting and devoid of affection for joint
to the past.
Final word
In conversation, do not dodge and speak in riddles and
half hints. Immediately identify the topic of the conversation, your decision and
arguments. See your man in the eye, but without calling and
irritability. Tact has not been canceled! Give the word
interlocutor. If your partner reacts too violently to your
words, try to keep calm. End the conversation
short, meaningful phrase (for example: “this is my final
solution “), apologize and leave your (already former) partner
alone with your thoughts.
The rule of three “not”
Do not reassure the man with promises to remain friends. Hardly
this will succeed immediately after the break. Do not give hope that
the future, you may be together again. A man will be waiting for you
and, without waiting, throw out anything out of the ordinary. After the break not
need to meet, call up or chat with the former
partner. Be tough! If a man bothers you with calls,
ignore him.
After parting
Despite the fact that there was a relationship, after the break you need to lead
worthy of it. Let your intimate moments, features of character,
habits will remain in the “personal chest.” Do not say nasty things
reveal the secrets of a former partner. Even if he behaves
treat you ugly, do not answer him the same. Be
above!
Walking away from a man in English is moveton. Hide and seek and
catch up to anything. Parting should be worthy! To tell
truth in the eyes, immediately break off the relationship until it gets worse –
the most correct decision. Perhaps in the future a man will tell you
�”thank”…
Text: Katerina Pchelnikova
