Thu, Jan 23, 2014
It happened what you least expected, and what most of all
they were afraid – someone third appeared in your life. And this is not young
attractive lover. Это «всего лишь» computer.
The phrase “only” is not randomly quoted. And also
не случайно о computerе говорится, как о ком-то одушевленном.
A person who has become virtually addicted, this is exactly what applies to
this technique is like a native living being.
Dark days in the lives of modern women began when they were
invented online games. After all, any game can go to the end, and
no online You can play it endlessly. And developers spend
a lot of time and effort to ensure that the player did not even have thoughts
�”Tie”.
In the games themselves there is absolutely nothing scary. In fact, that
the bad thing is that your man coming home after a hard worker
day, relieve tension, killing all kinds of monsters or
immersed in the world of tank battles? On the contrary, give him
the opportunity to play without your caustic comments – each
has the right to a hobby.
But sometimes things are much worse. The player does not go out
virtual world for hours, spends on the purchase of painted armor
real money, ceases to pay attention not only to you, but also
common household problems. He is not sleepy, irritable. How do
to return a loved one to reality?
First of all, as in the fight against any other addiction, you need
eliminate pressure and aggression. Scandals will not help here. Will help
confidential dialogue. Explain to your partner how you miss him.
attention. Yes, you understand how much he likes the game, but she
not going anywhere, but without communication with your beloved you can and
to fade away. Agree on a simple time limit – let
He plays every evening, but on weekends he spends time with you. While you
prepare dinner, or take a bath – this is the time of the game, and after – already
overall.
If simple conversation doesn’t help, you need to create situations
distracting from the game. Invite guests more often, including friends
husband Take a trip to the sea, or excursion tour. Let him get
яркие впечатления, не связанные с computerом. Zatoy repair.
A man will have to help you. In a situation of addiction, it’s important
so that your favorite “drug” has as little time as possible.
The brain is resting, I want to play less.
Start spending more time with yourself. Sign up for a dance, more
spend time with friends, go to the theater and to the exhibition. When
he will get tired of eating sandwiches, and the dust layer will exceed the critical
marks, the dialogue can be returned.
And, finally, a non-standard method. Start playing for yourself, not
necessarily the same game as the partner. As a player, he will understand you.
But while you play, he will be bored. Let it be on
your place. There is a real danger that you, too, will be involved. But then
and the conflict will be settled. Two gamers under the same roof always
find something to do, if only electricity is not turned off.
