Safety for brides

Tue, 08 Nov 2016

Every bride is worried about her wedding. And not necessarily
The reason for this – the venue of the banquet or the number of guests.
Here, it would seem, the main female dream came true – called under
crown. What else do you miss?

Doubts begin: but I would like for a lifetime, and he just
cope, and whether he really – the same prince, because in my
calculations he should be higher and curly, and with the Arabian horse,
winning all horse racing!

Experiences are absolutely normal, even the most in love
girls are nervous before deciding on this crucial step.
So we think, read, think and … slowly but surely stop
doubt.

Prediction of the future. In sorrow or joy?

A certain psychologist from America, by the name of Roland, derived several
criteria, the presence of which makes the family happy. Pay
attention to your relationship with a partner and draw conclusions. As far as
successful will your marriage according to Roland?

Общительность каждого из супругов

This does not mean that you should chat without ceasing,
talk as much as you want. The main thing is that you do not have
is boring. Suppose a man does not know how to keep things interesting for you.
themes about love affairs of your girlfriends, and you do not understand a damn thing in his
beloved nuclear physics. Think maybe you can without
end arguing about politics. It’s not so bad. But if each
your date is as quiet as a gay party in the Caucasus,
you just need to think about it!

Взаимопонимание

At first, it is very difficult to correctly assess relations
this criterion, so do not bother. It is clear that any
man, like you, is now in a euphoric state: ready
love, give, praise and adore! Will you be through some
time to really try to understand each other – everyone will decide
intellectual possibilities of both of you. In practice, occurs
there are few people who can actually be smarter and on time, understanding
be silent.

Хороший секс

Here, I think everything is clear. If thirty years ago people
walked furious and everyone did not care about the true causes
discontent, now even schoolchildren know who to blame for the bad
the mood of the teacher.

Good sex is the key to a healthy relationship and good mood.
both spouses.

Поддержка и доверительность

If a wife with problems runs to her friends, and a husband to her mother, then be
trouble Sooner or later, such a relationship will collapse. She will be jealous
he does not understand what is the matter, both will discuss their affairs on the side. She is
he will listen to unmarried, uncomprehending girlfriends, he hears
other tips far from ideal.

You are from the wedding night together and for everything you do
also answer together. So helping each other is necessary, the family
all the same.

– “HOUSE”

What is meant is that you should take a positive view.
that nest where you are. Having this place is easy
necessary. At first, not all couples have the opportunity to live.
separately. Стремиться к этому necessary. Whatever relationship
you have a mother-in-law, no matter how great your mother is, but
shared housing does not benefit your new family.

You are the wife, the only owner and you will be incredibly difficult
get used to this role and at the same time fight for the right to be
slabs. If a man goes to live with the relatives of the bride, this is also not
can have a beneficial effect on his identification of himself as
real man, husband and father of your child.

Your head on your shoulders or let’s measure another 100 times?

Think about why you agreed. Do you really want to get married
for this person or do you think that if not for him, then the train with
cogs to create a cell of society is already leaving your peron?
So, questions for reflection:

What do you know about your future husband? Collect and analyze all
information:

  • What is his family?
  • What did he achieve in his … years?
  • What was his relationship with the former?
  • How to treat you?
  • How did you meet, why did you swear, what days were
    the happiest.

If one of your exs appeared now, and did
suggestion, would you agree?

  • And if just a stranger, a cute guy
  • And someone from your future spouse’s friends
  • Perhaps your best friend beckons you, as in the best traditions.
    American cinema?

What do you expect from marriage? Does he share your desires?

  • Are you ready to have children?
  • Would you like to travel with him?
  • Perhaps you are tired of loneliness?
  • Perhaps you are financially hard?
  • Do you want to keep him close to you forever?

Do you really love him?

  • Do you know about his faults?
  • Does he love you as much as you love him?
  • Does he love you more than his relatives?
  • Are you ready to take his side if your relatives are
    blame him for something?

The last and most important question for the bride

If after all thinking you do not feel better, then answer to
one more question: “Are you ready to cancel the wedding?” If you thought about
to your fiance, about how you will be without him, about the regret that
you will experience – everything is fine. But if your thoughts were about spent
money, the number of invitees and what mom will say, then think
a few more times.

It is best to contact an experienced psychologist. Spend it
some amount of money, but you don’t make your greatest mistake
of life. To speak on such a delicate subject with friends is impossible. And you
you can’t be completely honest, and they’ll initially put on
you label: “pre-wedding excitement.” What if you really
Is there anything to worry about?

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