Fri, Apr 11, 2014
Often you can hear from women that they do not find excuses for
admiring their men. This is one of the strongest misconceptions
who admits a lady in her life. The female generation is not accustomed
praise men. Criticism, accusations and complaints against the husband
accompany the lady for many centuries.
Psychologists say partners should always admire
each other. This should especially be manifested by a woman.
The need for admiration lies in man’s nature, therefore
open manifestation of such feelings makes family life
happier.
Man always expresses a desire to boast of his
achievements, successes and exploits. He wants people sincerely
admired his personal merits. When a man does not receive
necessary portion of admiration and does not feel interest in their
aspirations, he begins to seek desired emotions on the side or
angry with loved ones and life itself. It is because of the lack
admiration young man eventually turns into a gloomy
the person who constantly finds fault with trifles and nudites.
It is very important to apply the admiration technique in the initial stages.
family life. It is at this point that spouses will better know each other.
friend, trying to please and please partner. Man tries,
but he does not always succeed in guessing the desires of the woman he loves.
Making one mistake after another, he begins to doubt his
abilities. But if the lady in time expresses her support and
admiration, the partner will have the strength to correct their mistakes and
give pleasure to the second half.
Need to admire properly. This should be done, given
specific reason. If a woman will sing all day long beloved
man praises about his superhero qualities, it will reach
absolutely opposite result.
- First, she will spoil the man’s attention and compliments;
- Secondly, he will become so accustomed to the words of flattery, that for him they
turn into an empty sound;
- Third, he will begin to suspect a lady in an attempt to reach
desired in this way. �”What does she want from me?” – inadvertently
a man will think.
You need to admire in time, emphasizing what is important for
partner. If a lady tells her lover that he is amazing
Looks in a new shirt, he is not affected by such words. Delights
require precisely male qualities and character. It could be him
professional success, passion, finance, mental
ability, personal qualities. In this case, competent flattery
prove fruitful.
- Если восхищаться качествами мужчины, то нужно указывать
on his perseverance, determination, willpower and others
features;
- Если восхищаться его умом, то следует подчеркивать
excellent mind counting, strategic thinking,
good memory;
- Если проявлять восхищение мужской силой, то лучше
talk about his stamina, sports victories, opportunities
lift heavy objects.
- Если восхищаться его увлечениями, то стоит больше
be interested in what he does and how he manages such
to do.
But a woman should consider one thing: not all men can
take admiration in direct form. Due to low self esteem or
self-doubt a young man can perceive any
praise aggressively.
Here you should carefully look at the partner. If he
irritably perceives admiration, it means that he is understated
self esteem. In this case, it should be praised in an indirect form –
show more interest in his affairs. Let’s say a loved one
I was able to quickly repair the door. Dame should be well considered
результат его работы и вдумчиво отметить: «Действительно хорошая
Job! The masters I called could not do it, and you
так быстро справился с задачей!»
When a man hears admiration from his beloved, he
gains confidence and courage. If he понимает, что его не
will be criticized for another mistake, with each attempt he has
it will be better to get it.
Text: Svetlana Ahi
