In every woman’s life, a wedding is one of the most important events.
Since childhood, we admire the happy brides in
fabulous dresses and imagine yourself in their place. But will pass
happy wedding, guests wander home, and what awaits further
new spouses? As you know, the wedding puts a fat point
on a free life, and the joint life begins, sometimes such
hard and full of a kind of struggle for survival.
But why is this happening? You love each other was
spent so much time, effort and a fortune to
the marriage ceremony of your dreams, but only something goes wrong, how would
you wanted and how you imagined. From somewhere appears
depression, anxiety and even aggression, which manifests itself in your
relationship to each other and family life in general.
According to psychologists, the so-called “post-wedding
depression “fall, as a rule, representatives of the beautiful
sex, because they lack the necessary attitude to live together,
instead of a carefree life you have to face daily
жизненными неувязками и fight с внезапно появившейся внутренней
emptiness.
The whole problem is that many women represent
yourself a wedding as if the gifts and fun will not end
never. Subconsciously, they refuse to objectively look at
future reality. Depression occurs because the woman was
too focused on reaching the goal, and then when the wedding
already behind, the desire for something disappears. But, fortunately, such
the state of affairs is usually temporary.
Women must clearly understand that a wedding is not a guarantee.
that now disagreements, misunderstandings, insults and quarrels will not be
at all! When the wedding euphoria passes, we have to realize that
life together is not always as sweet as chocolate.
To get rid of postwedding apathy, you need to put
several important goals before the wedding. For example,
buy a new apartment, another car, or at least furniture. Maybe,
it’s time to think about the baby!
Another problem is that many women believe that
after the wedding, their beloved won’t go anywhere from them anyway,
the result is that they cease to monitor their appearance. Married
men such a development, of course, does not like. To
relations after the marriage evolved positively, it is important
so that both partners work on themselves and objectively understand that
Wedding is not the end of an interesting and active life, but only her
Start!