Mistress on the horizon: how to live and whatdo?

Tue, 08 Nov 2016

How often do you jealous of your husband? You’re scared of what he
can go to another woman? Some wives experience baseless
jealousy, others know that beloved husband goes to the left. What to do,
if you think he is cheating? How to live with it? Is it worth
seek the truth?

Step one. Heart-to-heart talk … with yourself

Before you decide anything, you have to decide
Do you really want to know the truth? What will you do if
fears confirmed? Many women act too
emotionally. They do not listen to the voice of reason and lose everything.
When it comes to competitors, a cold mind is simply necessary.

If you really worry and think that your husband has gone on a walk –
Give yourself a few days of rest. Most likely, if this is true, then
He did not begin to change yesterday. One or two days will not solve anything. Rest at
friends, take a walk in some beautiful place, be alone,
to make the right decisions and think about everything.

If a man really does not change?

  • How will your suspicions affect his attitude towards you?
  • Will he forgive you for your conjectures?
  • Will you ruin your relationship with jealousy?
  • What is your man’s character? Will he want to make you
    spite? There are those who are willing to change in retaliation.

If your man really changes

  • Do you want to return your man?
  • Are you ready to forgive him? It is necessary to find out
    in advance to think through a plan of behavior!
  • Will you leave him immediately after your suspicions
    confirmed?

The most important question

  • Is truth important to you?

Perhaps your relationship has become obsolete, and you slowly but surely
moving to parting? Perhaps this act can be
perceive as the last nail driven into the coffin of your marriage?
Is it worth тогда портить себе нервы, не лучше ли плюнуть на все,
save your nerves and run up? Think about it.

And if you want to return it and agree to be with him in spite of
to which, then confidence in treason can negatively affect your
relationship? Sometimes looking like a fool is not so bad. He is not
will think that you can be treated differently, but you
will have to forgive. How can you calmly look into his eyes
knowing exactly that he was hugging another woman?

Maybe you do not need this truth, why spoil the relationship when
you can start all over again. Sometimes, a crisis is a new opportunity.
smart people get the most out of the most pitiable
situations.

How to find out the truth?

Ask yourself a few more times, do you need the truth? On the ground
there are only a few women for whom physical treason is
betrayal. Emotional components are more important for us, if
a man is in love with another, then yes, but if he wants to mate and
quit – well, okay.

In short, if cheating is important, and having learned the truth, you
guaranteed to leave him. Then listen. But remember, he is about nothing
should not know. If he guesses that you are spying, then your
relationship will be difficult to restore.

Unfortunately, you have no other way than
behave like a detective tracker, however, with this you will surely destroy everything
good that between you was. He is not сможет спокойно тебя простить,
if the charges are groundless. This behavior will offend anyone.
man, as, in principle, and a woman.

You will never know the truth from him. You can cry, scream and
run amok. Throw 1000 needles under his nails, but if he doesn’t
he wants, he will never reveal the truth.

You need to include Sherlock: phone screening at night, detailed
study of transfers from the bank account, full inspection of the car and
clothes for foreign objects. If someone calls – stop
next to him and pretend to do your own thing.

The surest way is snooping. By the way, it can be fun.
Buy wigs with a friend, hire a taxi, or take one of the
Friends of the car, so that the “client” did not guess. It is necessary to take sometimes
weekend at work, he suddenly does not meet with her exactly
Today.

Of course, it’s easier not to bother and hire a private investigator, but
it costs money. The price of the service is from 30 thousand, depending
от амбиций детектива и сложности situations.

5 important NOT if you do not want to spoil the relationship with
a husband

  • Do not ask questions if you do not know what to do with the answers.

Ну, скажет он тебе что изменяет, и что do? You somehow
prepared for this? You will scream, fight hysterically and
cry? And if he leaves, will you persuade him to stay?
Right the day he said he was cheating? And if
that he does not just change, but does it with a man! And if he
hesitates to admit that he goes to ballet and therefore disappears on
work? Before asking questions – think over his answers and
plan the reaction.

  • Do not ask questions, if in any case you do not get the truthful
    replies

Why ask questions when he is guaranteed not to say
the truth? You should not lose your temper just like that. Let’s say he
stayed at work, and when you came, you found a trace with him
lipstick on shirt You can two or three or four hours to wait
truthful answer, and only hear: “I can’t imagine where it came from
could appear. “Perhaps he is telling the truth, perhaps not. Well, well
что do?

One of my ex went off for a walk with friends one evening
and returned at 11 o’clock in the afternoon. Clearly, I spent a lot of nerves, but
what sense – all the same will not tell, even if changed. It was summer and
on this day he offered to go to the river, although Russian beaches are not
recognizes, and is afraid of germs like fire. Strange, you see. Send out
out of the house, and I inadvertently asked: “Where were you? Women with you
was it? “. Of course not, how could I have thought otherwise, stupid woman!
I asked these questions at intervals of several hours. WITH
a smile, nothing foreshadows trouble. Just interest.

Whether he was upset by the absence of scandal, or my behavior
completely broke the pattern, but in the end he could not wait to tell me
what happened yesterday: “And we,” says – yesterday with one friend
lay at night and looked at this church. So beautiful. “Yeah, with a friend
he lay, and see how two huge drunken hairy men
lie on a soft lawn and read each other Lermontov’s poems under
jingle church bells. The young man did not let up and hinted to me
in every imaginable way that he spends time with another
a woman.

What to do with this information I did not know. Hysterical?
It seemed to me that he would not get away from me anyway, and if
will want to leave – he is too healthy for me to stop him.
Swear to prevent? It’s like writing on packs.
“Smoking kills,” but he is so stupid and does not know what to change
badly. I decided to think about it tomorrow. By the way, that evening,
it so happened that he was returning from friends, and I was walking from the store.
I do not like to scream on the street, so I just walked behind. Him
the phone rang and he began to apologize quite loudly
someone and asked no longer to call. Apparently, it was she.

  • Не скандальте с a husband
  • Do not commit rash acts
  • Act like a fool, don’t seem to understand anything until
    decide on the strategy of behavior.

How to return a husband

It is very important to understand that you will not achieve anything by shouting. If he
changed, it means he wanted so. Read about men
the psychology of betrayal, and you will understand everything. You need to make
he only wanted you again. And for this, remember how you
fall in love with him. Act smartly, act smart
woman. WITHтаньте для него самой идеальной, и плевать на всех. it
The only way to keep a beloved man next to him.

Comments

Nadia 11/09/2016 Throw such a husband and all. Since he ran
to the left, it will always do that and not to keep it. So
do you need this?

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