Both women and men often cannot fully enjoy.
having sex because of certain fears. Basically, everything is based on
fear of being misunderstood partner or in some way
disappoint him. Let’s look at the main male and female
phobias in sex.
Common fear for men and women – unplanned
pregnancy. Often, even during sex, women think about
opportunities to get pregnant and therefore do not give pleasure
completely. In this case, it is worth talking to a man about it.
in advance, because he himself is interested in this.
In men, the most common fears are:
- Lack of erection. The main thing for women is not to poke fun.
on this occasion, otherwise it will cause a huge partner
psychological trauma.
- Fear does not satisfy the partner. Many think that for
Men do not care what sensations a woman experiences during sex.
However, this is misleading. Leave a woman without sex
almost 70% of men are afraid of pleasure.
- Fear of premature orgasm. Almost all men know
features of their body, and it happens that they have an orgasm
very fast. If the orgasm comes quickly, and even in
In most cases, a woman may well decide that
such a partner does not suit her. Unless, of course, lovers do not
think about how you can solve this problem.
- Fear of being a woman first. Contrary to popular belief about
that men prefer virgins is very common
fear of being “first.” Men, in fact, fear responsibility
for the first contact.
- Fear of comparison. No doubt the competition is good and
useful thing, but sex – the place where a man wants to feel
themselves the most desired and sole owner of a woman
The most common women’s fears:
- Fear of your body. Often girls are shy
imperfections of his own figure and fear of contempt
by the man.
- Fear of getting sick. Sexually transmitted diseases no one has yet
canceled, and even more so, now we know much more about them than
earlier. We know the symptoms, we know how diseases are transmitted, that
the condom is not always effective and that AIDS is sick a lot
people. Of course, the fear of disease is characteristic of both sexes.
But, according to available data, it is more pronounced for women. Perhaps in
In the future, it will be quite normal to carry with you a certificate that
the person is not sick with venereal diseases.
- Fear does not justify the wishes of men. Of course man
reaches orgasm anyway, but sex is not only an orgasm,
This is a whole range of sensations and experiences. Woman scared
seem not sophisticated enough, so it is often decided on
experiments or trying too hard and naturally she gets
quite a bit of fun or not getting it at all.
To get rid of all these fears, you need first
trust yourself and love yourself gain confidence in your own
strength and trust your partner. One thing to remember – if
the partner has chosen you, it means that he / she is satisfied with everything. therefore
Try to indulge in pleasure.
Text: Irina Lev