Lover found: 7 ways to savedignity and win

Tue, Feb 24, 2015

Trite, but the foundation of a happy family is trust and honesty.
What could be worse for a loving woman than to know that her husband
is she wrong? Sometimes cold in relationships gives reason to both spouses.
think about communication on the side, but most often the dishonesty of one of
spouses like a bolt from the blue all forever destroys all plans for
future and habitual happy life.

Thousands of women survived the betrayal of a beloved man, but someone’s
broke, and someone pushed forward on the path to a new happiness.
So, what to do if you found a husband with his mistress? Some
Steps will help to cope with the situation and get out of it with pride
head up.

1. Self-control. If you caught the husband in the arms of another
women, you, of course, the first thing you want to scratch them both
eyes. Although it is difficult, but try to pull yourself together and not
take decisive action. First, it will help you.
�”Save face”, secondly, disarm deceivers.

2. Silence. Catching husband with mistress, do not make loud
scenes, but just silently walk away. Screaming and swearing will bring a divorce, and your
the husband doesn’t even think about the fact that you both need to calm
explain, and ask him for forgiveness. Your silence in this
situations will be more eloquent than rival hair
and her husband’s face scratched in blood.

3. What’s next? Now you must firmly decide for yourself what you
want to: complete and unconditional break up or you are ready
forgive her husband, even after some time?

4. Mystery. Try not to tell anyone about what happened.
Experiencing an unbearable insult on the closest person to
betrayal, you will want to share this with your mom or better
girlfriend. Of course, they will regret you, support you and, most likely,
will hate a traitor. Even if you later decide
save the family and forgive the husband, those who will know about his terrible
act forever change their attitude towards him. You will not succeed
avoid reproaches mother or girlfriend in the address of his spouse.

5. Analysis. From any situation you need to draw conclusions. Fate is not
just gives us a test. Think what was wrong in your
relationship. Perhaps your husband had reasons to look for happiness in
hugs another woman? It would be best to speak frankly.
about it with my husband to hear his explanations of what happened.

6. Re-discover the world. Now the main thing for you is not to dwell.
on the problem and finding the guilty. Fill the void in your soul
meetings with friends, watching movies, outdoor recreation and
active sports.

7. Journey. It helps best to forget the change.
conditions. Do you dream to go to another city? Have not been to
relatives? Sumptuously! Now you can just devote your
time and thoughts with new impressions. Then you just will have no time
engage in self-digging.

Such a blow of fate is very difficult to transfer. Try to see
the whole situation is a little different: you recognized your man from another
parties. The sooner you realize that the person you love
capable of betrayal, the better. The sooner you find your
a man who, like you, appreciates sincerity, if you accept
the decision to throw the traitor out of his life. This is a great reason for
joy – you open thousands of roads leading to the new
love, relationships, but without cheating and cheating.

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