I love you as a friend.

Чт, 15 дек 2016 Автор: Лия “Мишелька”
Kondratieff

You meet, start to communicate, like each other. You
common topics of conversation appear, common interests, you spend
each other all the more time.

Later, get to know each other closer, start sharing your
Secrets, talking about sore, about joys, about experiences,
send funny sms to each other every day. You появляются свои
jokes that only two of you understand. You create your
own little world in which no one but you two do not
admit.

And here comes the most important moment in which we do the most
main mistake. When we begin to understand that friendship alone is not enough.
That this is no longer mere sympathy, but something more. And what do you want
this little world do more. You start with him candid
conversation, not knowing how he can turn around – whether he will fight back, or
on the contrary, you will be even happier than before. And it would be better if he
fought back But no, you are moving to a new stage of relations. Most
pleasant stage.

You experience new feelings for each other. Butterflies come to life
stomach, adrenaline from the blood does not leave, frozen face does not slip
smile. Sms-ki cause even more smiles, only their content
not funny, but insanely pleasant. The world around ceases to exist
you exist only for each other. It all lasts before
the moment it starts to be something serious. For him everything
more than serious. He suggests moving on to the next stage.
relationship. And you understand that this needs to be done. But understand that
something is wrong. What do not you understand. Where did you make a mistake?

You analyze the situation for a long time, and it dawns on you. Everything from the moment
dating flashes before my eyes. Every word, every moment. And you
find the answer to your every question. You understand the worst –
you have always loved him as a friend. And later life with him is not
imagine, because, it is impossible. And you don’t lie to him
you can because you love him so much. Now gotta do
the most painful thing is to tell him. To tell him this terrible phrase: “I
love you as a friend “, break his heart, destroy everything that
was to destroy this little world that you created together.
Gathering with the spirit, and … Speak.

Everything! Rose-colored glasses fell to their feet. Curtain lowered. And you стоите в
the bright light of the spotlights on an empty stage, where they had recently been
colorful game of your fantasies, in which you played the main
acting role. You stand and look in the empty hall, where only
one viewer – you yourself. And at this moment you realize that this game
with yourself you lost. You lost it even when you went
all-in, putting at stake both friendship and love, and ultimately
lost both. A resounding knock is heard
projectors one by one, and all you have to do is leave with this
scenes, because it will be better.

After a week, a month of silence, you begin to hope that everything
calmed down and subsided. That he came to terms with it. And now it remains
only survive their loss. The main thing that it was easier. But
suddenly comes sms, in which he is interested, – have you changed
your opinion? .. And at this moment you realize that nothing
has changed. That he still hurts, that he still thinks about
hopes for you … And swallowing a bitter lump in your throat, you answer dry
�”Not.”

Think a hundred times before you kill a friendship, for love. Not
make such mistakes so as not to lose people dear to us.
Make friends, just make friends.

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