Humiliation is synonymous with righteducation

How is it customary in our country to raise children? Nakosyachil – whip
the five is gingerbread. But it often happens that a child gets
the whip is not his fault, but because of the bad mood of the parents. AT
children’s tears are not noticeable in large cities: the houses are higher – the walls are thicker.
AT провинции все прозрачнее, и все выходит на поверхность.

The usual typical five-story building. Ordinary neighbors. On the top and right
families have children. What is special? On the top and right взрослый
the voice screams, and the baby cries. What is special? Similar attitude
people to the problems of beating children in the family does not surprise anyone. ATсе
love their parents and no one is offended by the slap behind
wet feet – because they love it, wanting to teach us a lesson,
so that we don’t do this anymore and save ourselves from colds. Beats
– means love?

Our parents in some way can be understood. They raised us in
90s, when there was no decent work and there was no money even for food
enough. What kind of proper education can be judged in animals
the laws?

But what happens now? Same. I do not seek to fail
all families under one line – there are exceptions, but they are not more than a third.
Children are scolded and slapped in the vast majority of modern
Russian families, and the lower the wealth – the more they slap. Not
do you believe? ATыберетесь за пределы кольцевой и на пару месяцев
settle in some district center, away from the regional
cities, it does not matter: in a house or apartment. ATыключите вечером телевизор
and listen to what happens behind the wall. Hear the neighbors bathe
baby? �“Mom, I’m hot! And what will I do to you, fuck-tararah?
Aaaa … Why are you, Tararah-takh-takh, gone broke? “Then the male enters
voice: “I will calm you now! Aaaa …” And then go for a walk.
See, well-groomed, brightly made up young woman leads a child
from kindergarten. He does not have time for it, stumbles and falls. She is
stops, gives the cuff and shouts that he has soiled
jeans. Did you notice? Now go to any of the stores. ATидите,
next to the cashier there is a full aunt with a child and he says to her:
«Мама, ну купи…» She is ему: «Заткнись! ATообще больше у меня ничего
you won’t get it! ” Heard? And you still did not believe. Why i sent you
It is to the province, and not left to look for such cases in Moscow?
Yes, because the province is more willing to show all the lowland nature
human relations, and the trifle in the wallet makes her
brighter.

After all the above, a flurry of indignant
shouts: “How else? Not растить же непослушного эгоистов!»
If parents are amorphous, ductile and dull, then rather
all this will happen, but if the parents are self-sufficient
personalities – the whip is not needed. Child on the subconscious
level tends to be like their parents. Therefore
the main reason why children in the provinces are beaten more often than in
the city. Successful city dwellers know what they want in life.
and know how to achieve this. The child they perceive as equal
and appreciate his personality. He intuitively feels his
independence and learns to work on yourself, get new
knowledge and earn a five for yourself and not as a means against
carrot and the opportunity to get gingerbread. This, of course, is not common
the rule is that there are always exceptions.

Now back to the province. What is happening there? Parents
they work in factories, bridges, steamboats — they get little, the chief
angry, the future is vague, and there is also a child with twos. And what are they
do? That’s right, beat. Bute to escape from such a life
how they live Beat so that the child can be proud because
that they can no longer be proud of themselves. Beat so that, at the end
In the end, lift your spirits and feel your power even
over someone. No matter how crazy it sounds.

What is the result? The vicious circle: matured children bring up
their children as well as they were brought up once. And the like
It does not happen so often that it is no longer considered wildness. it
routine, and she – a synonym for the norm. And the norm is right. Difficult
break out of the circle. The province only allows it to notice faster.
Can this be changed? … Maybe. Only for this you will need
not one generation and the desire to change for the better …