Male treason is common. Men go to her
for different reasons. But the female reaction in the case of exposure
chosen one. This situation is especially difficult to tolerate when
man and woman are married. After a lot of clarification
relationships, scandals and excuses in 80% of cases it ends
divorce. However, is it worth being so categorically responsive to men’s
�”Weakness”?
Errors
- The fact of male adultery is undeniably unpleasant. As a rule, tears,
accusations and hysteria are inevitable. That’s just the reaction is very
predictable and little effective in solving the problem. Man not
will endure long and listen to the severity of the offense. Even
conscious of his guilt, he just leaves.
- Long, tedious lectures about how hard to worry
betrayal of the beloved, what suffering brings treason – also not
way out. Constant reproaches and reminders to the man about his
misconduct will not help to bring understanding and comfort in the relationship.
Man not сможет долго нести груз прошлого и, бросив все, шагнет в
the future, but with another woman.
Tips
- Before you rush into the charges, try to understand why
your man went to treason. Analyze your behavior and
attitude to the chosen one. Perhaps you yourself pushed him on such
deed.
- No scandals, tears and emotions. Quiet conversation with a man
will help to understand the motives of his treason. Do not try to blame and
find out who is to blame, concentrate on how to build further
relations. Thanks to female restraint and self-control dialogue
get more productive. As a result, together you can
make the right decision.
- Look to the future! What has already been done should remain in
the past. The man, after discovering his infidelity, thinks that now
mutual understanding with the satellite is exhausted. Surprise him! Try
leave all resentment and transfer your relationship to a new one,
trust level. Help in this will be able to joint rest, change
environment, new experiences.
After exposing the man tries to dodge in every possible way and
settle a conflict In his behavior it is important to catch the desire to solve
проблему и сохранить relations. Do not deprive your chosen one of the chance.
He certainly was guilty. But your impulsive reaction may
provoke more misses on his part. remember, that
happy and harmonious relationships are largely dependent on the woman and
her ability to forgive male weaknesses.
Text: Katerina Pchelnikova