How to refrain from screaming when raisingchild: recommendations of psychologists. Is it possible to raise a child, notraising voices?

Сб, 26 май 2018 Автор: Владимир Владимиров

It’s no secret that modern methods
parenting significantly different from previously adopted. Changed
some value systems and state system. Earlier in the family
reigned authoritarian method of education, when the words of elders were
by law. Now the little man has his own opinion, he
is already a person from birth, with his interests
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.

Modern children do not understand the phrase “Because I said so!” –
they need to explain the expediency of each act. But often
parents continue to act the same way they were brought up,
therefore face problems. The child stops obeying,
out of control. Having tried all the familiar options, mom
begins to raise the voice on her baby, which leads to another
more misunderstanding.

Recommendations of psychologists who will help not to shout at their
children

В первую очередь нужно посмотреть на себя со
стороны
. For irritation, you need to look at yourself in
a mirror, or imagine what a screaming person looks like – a face
distorted, mouth wide open, eyes burn with a bad fire, and from
throats fly strange sounds, like the roar of the beast. Is becoming
fearfully. What is a little man like? This method will quickly sober up and
will help calm down.

It is necessary to relieve tension. Often moms scream
на children из-за собственной усталости — трудный день на работе,
quarrel with a friend, bad mood or state of health, and then
baby naughty. Nerves can not cope and mom breaks down. Need to find
a way to remove the negative before coming home. For example, you can enroll in
gym and there to relieve tension or listen to your favorite music by
the way home.

Особое внимание нужно уделить заботе о себе.
A tired mom who doesn’t love herself is the worst thing she can
happen in the family. The mood of the household is directly dependent on
Mom’s mood, so you need to give yourself at least 1 hour a day.
A woman should not put her desires in the background. If a
there is a desire to draw, dance or sing, you need to do it,
to lighten the mood and easily carry household
scrape.

Хороший метод не кричать на малыша — это взять небольшую
паузу
. As soon as irritation goes into anger and mom
feels that she is about to break, she should take a deep breath, go to
the next room and there to take a break. You can have a cup of coffee,
look into the distance or count to 50, and then calmly evaluate the whole
the seriousness of the situation. When emotions subside, the desire to raise your voice
will disappear by itself.

You should talk more often with your children about feelings. Thanks
such communication they learn to recognize their feelings and exercise
respect for other people. If a у мамы плохое настроение, ей
it is necessary to state this directly, then the baby will be warned and
will be less naughty.

Psychologists recommend using the methods described above if
parents are not satisfied with the relationship with the child. In the life of parents
anything happens, but if it so happens that screams become the norm in
family, you need to pay attention to it. Don’t blame yourself
irritation, because awareness of the problem is already good. Can
try to deal with the problem yourself, and if not
It turns out, it is worth contacting a specialist.

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