How to beat a rival

How to beat a rival
Mon, Nov 21, 2016

You have always considered: “Only not with me!” Your husband gave for many years
you all that you wanted, and you were grateful for his intimacy. You
so accustomed to this, that they forgot about vigilance, and her husband
time deviated from the love of you, and began to look at the side.
Returning mentally back, you can, to the nearest weeks or
months to identify even those moments when you first felt
loss of affection, but did not want to admit it.

Remember how someone’s lipstick was found in the car? Or husband
having come late in the evening, he explained that the smell of women’s perfume
came from him from the accountant Petrovna, whom she encountered in
the corridor when leaving the director’s office? But today close
You can’t see these facts together – because you saw them together:
him and the blonde from the next section, and even in the most
unambiguous posture.

What to do? Retreat from the firing line, or revenge
immediately?

First of all, listen to your feelings, and think – what
driving you exactly at that moment. Betrayal of a loved one – like a flash
bright light. May hit in the eyes and blind, make commit
such actions, which then long have to regret. And this
not surprising. After all, he, the bastard, is experiencing such a rise now
feelings and emotions with that blonde while you are unbearable
hurt and lonely. Especially beats on vanity the fact that your
the rival is young, beautiful and intelligent.

The first impulses are very different – from immediate
throwing his stuff from the balcony, a huge whipping dishes and
filing for divorce, to the desire to return it, by all means
nothing.

Meanwhile, an American psychologist and a famous lawyer
divorce proceedings Margaret Kent argues that it is possible not
only return the attachment of a loved one, but also make the relationship more
harmonious, benefit from your crisis. Which one? About this we
let’s talk later.

Put in order the feelings and emotions

First of all, understand that your loved one is with you, not with her, as
it would be disappointing. He has not left you yet. BUT
it means that he needs you more than his new lover,
and returning his emotional attachment is still possible. Moreover,
it is quite realistic to do if even he has stated to you that he is going to
temporarily live separately.

If you are determined to return your loved one, you will have to go
through a lot. First, abandon plans for revenge,
dictated by their own rage. Much more useful for the situation
look at her rationally and act in your own interests.
The main task – to keep emotions and enough to control themselves. But
there is the opposite side – some girls can
It seems that the opponent appeared through your fault. Stop yourself
to execute! Do not waste time mourning the best moments.
of your life. You действительно можете сердиться на него, и имеете на
this is a complete right, but for now it is better to let him not know about your “knowledge”,
at least until you work out a plan
action.

How to resist rival

A mistress may think that she is trying to be a wife, however
According to statistics, another woman for the absolute majority of men –
just a beautiful application to add variety
in your life. Rarely does a man experience such passionate love
which overshadows everything. Most often, it’s just like
summer camp for a school teacher – because of a couple of summer
months he will not quit his main job.

So you are one against both of them. You должны переиграть обоих, чтобы
destroy mistress’s plans to get your husband on your terms
and push your loved one to choose in your favor. Remember that so far
he has not yet decided which of the women to prefer, if not
going to do it, wanting to leave it at that. Think –
because the goals of the mistress and your husband are different. Play on it.

Do not simplify the task of your opponent, scandals under the influence of
explosive temperament. To drive a wedge between doves will allow
some tricks that are best used when the husband is not
guesses that you “know”.

If something does not suit you – do not hesitate, go to
the next step. The main thing – do not stop and not find your
anger ahead of time.

ANDтак, критикуйте его

If you were perceived so far as a caring bore, ready
always and for all, remind him of his faults. No reproach and
scandals. And don’t let him think that he is too much for you
perfect

Let him be smarter and stronger than others, but do not let him
to think that he is superior in mind and quick wits of you. You можете
discover that your opponent loves to command and demands
attention, learn from her.

Dress up

Remember – this is a mandatory step. If still you brought in
sacrifice your desires in terms of clothing in his blessing, it’s time
establish balance. Buy everything you need, even if you
will have to go into debt.

At the same time, you should do a facial massage, dye your hair. AND
let you decide to quit it, anyway you will become
more attractive to other men.

And first, wake up a woman who is a long time
sleeping. Buy your stockings, and slowly wear them in front of a mirror.
Of course, in his eyes. And on his questions – shake mysteriously
shrug and answer – “I do not know myself.”

Call him several times a day.

Let a couple of calls be at the exact time, and the third
arbitrary, each time in different ways. He will feel
discomfort, constantly waiting for a call. Come to work for him without
warnings, but not for long. Establish contacts with his colleagues
for work, let them consider you an ideal pair.

Give him your photo in a frame

It is desirable where you feel happy. If so
there is no photo, make it and try to put it on the table
him at work. Make on her a gentle signature: “I love you” or
�”How good together.” Let her see it. Try to be
constant hindrance to their meetings, it’s better than to give way without words
his rival.

His sense of responsibility and your unpredictability

Until your husband knows about your awareness, you are in your hands
real trump card After all, your rival depends on him much
more than him. By changing unpredictable plans, you can enter it into
state of despair.

For example, if you regularly leave for relatives, leaving
time for him to meet with a rival, tell him that you
decided to change plans just before leaving, thus upsetting
dating It is especially important to arrange it on her birthday – such
she certainly won’t forgive.

Try to come up with something and next time to spend
It’s time alone with my husband and not to give him an opportunity to meet her.
The unplanned party for
your mutual friends, on which you will have to play perfect
relations.

Sexual strategy

Without any hesitation, try to seduce your husband sexually for
preserving the family, even if it has recently become cold to
bed comforts.

The first thought of a deceived wife is to end all kinds of relationships,
avoid intimacy.

Remember, by doing this, you just give your rival
invaluable service. Especially intense should be intimate.
отношения накануне предполагаемого dating It is useful to hint
beloved that something interesting is happening to you lately
what awakens your sensuality. You just can’t
stay!

Kitchen as part of an arsenal against an opponent

Always feed your favorite food before leaving home. it
especially useful if he was going to dine with a rival. When
his body will be focused on digestion he cannot
focus on dinner with her, and the lover will be able to perceive it
as a personal failure. In addition, at the fill man fed
sexual activity falls, he wants to sleep more.

How to hint to him that you know about their connection

Use this moment to set your opponent in
unattractive light. Tell us how you met old in the store
his mom’s girlfriend, and she told you that you have a connection with this
blonde Tell me how you answered it was just nonsense, and
your wonderful husband can not be due to such a rough and
unpolished special. And what if he wanted to change, he showed
would have a much better taste.

Let him deny these “gossip”, do not argue with him, let him
proves itself that this is not true.

Infidelity mistress

If you are familiar with her, try to convey that your husband
constantly changes you with some “inflatable dolls” like himself
calls them, so even jealous of them you have no
desires. Show off your intense intimate life that
recently only improved. Thank the invisible lover
husband for such a gift.

There is some irony in the fact that the lover always requires
loyalty is very important to her. She does not consider his wife a rival
but another woman can significantly shake her balance.

One way or another, but with similar actions you will drive a significant
wedge in the relationship “dove”, and you will only have to loosen it
more and more. And now about the benefits that you can get from
this fight.

Last step

If all your efforts remain in vain, open the cards and walk away.
from him yourself. Let him go … for a while. Indeed, according to statistics, 85% of men
prefer to stay in their family.

It is unlikely that he will invite a rival to live in your home. But early rival
celebrate the victory.

When она начнет настаивать, ему придется уйти к ней. Is it
Is this what he wanted? If he dreamed of that, he would
would it be long

Now, being isolated and “between two fires,” he
will try to restore the previous state. When вы обезоружите его и
break the main desire to keep both of you, he will have a very
compelling arguments get you back. And maybe you will switch roles, and
now he will try to keep your connection. Your main task
will be solved – the rival at this point will move to another plan.

And you? Закалившись в боях, вы will become уверенной в себе,
attractive, and quite possibly, will get couple of three
fans. Теперь вы сами will become рассуждать на тему — нужен ли
is he still to you?

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