Wed, Feb 19, 2014
Reality makes its own adjustments to the classic
the statement that “all happy families are equally happy.”
The modern marriage of equal partners is sometimes not kept at all.
patriarchal values, but on individual rules that take into account
interests of both spouses. What exactly?
Respect and understand each other without trying to remake
Famous couple – opera diva Galina Vishnevskaya and musician
Mstislav Rostropovich – formed literally 4 days after
dating and went hand in hand for 52 years, until death separated
their. But as the composer himself said shortly before his departure: “Just
we love each other, that’s all. It can go on forever.
And it will continue in another world. ” The secret of longevity union
two complex creative individuals, each of whom has implemented
a lot of projects, it turns out, is very simple: “Do not redo each
friend. “
This covenant was followed by another swan couple – Sophia Loren and
Carlo Ponty, who lived together for 56 years and endured everything
professional and personal adversity. Unequal in many external
the parameters of the union lasted so long because both were ready
go against everyone for the sake of each other, but at the same time respected the desire
partner to be yourself. But at the first meeting of the eminent
The 38-year-old producer declared a timid 17-year-old starlet: “You,
child, you need to correct your nose and lose weight. ” What is unknown Sofia
Shikolone boldly declared: “No!”.
Have their own business and not complexes because of the second roles
Many men would feel their ego wounded
in the place of the husband of German Frau-Chancellor Angela Merkel, or the English
Queen Victoria, or “iron” Margaret Thatcher, or the legendary
Israeli Prime Minister Golda Mayer. But also to women who
prepared the role of the first lady in the statesmen, accounted for
not sweet. How to maintain a balance?
Americans’ favorite Michelle Obama struggled to cope with the loss
leading role in the family, because once it was she, experienced
employee of the law firm, gave a start in the profession
Unknown sophomore trainee. Long years until the next
the president moved to the heights of his career, his wife reproached him
insufficient attention to the family.
In recognition of the spouses rallied their unexpected illness younger
daughter, after which Barack began to regularly spend time with
loved ones, and Michelle realized that the politician’s wife has many
ways of self-realization. The main thing is not to close on the family and
continue to improve. This rule was confirmed by Eleanor.
Roosevelt, Jacqueline Kennedy, Raisa Gorbachev, Chantal Biya, Princess
Diana and Kate Middleton, who showed the world how to stay on
Secondary cast, do not become the shadow of her husband.
Love what you do
38-year-old Marissa Mayer rapidly conquered career peaks
in IT corporations Google and Yahoo !, having managed to happily quit
get married and have a son. According to her, the key to success in work and
personal life is a feeling of pleasure and joy from any
duties performed. �”It doesn’t matter if you’re in the office or at home, but what
you are doing must be fun! “- said the president of the company
Yahoo! in a recent interview.
To keep your career and family uninterrupted every day
stress, psychologists advise business women:
- to plan family matters in the diary on a par with
workers;
- clearly plan your activities and arrange
priorities;
- do not take work home;
- take the help of loved ones;
- Do not introduce strict rules and separation of roles in the family;
- regularly arrange “fasting” days and rest from everyone
cares in a cozy secluded corner.
And finally, admit to your true desires.
Well-known politician Irina Khakamada said that once the question
strangers on the street: “What do you want? Say! ”She is surprised for
replied: “I want prosperity and happiness for my children! AND
huge love for yourself until the end of life! “.
Текст: Татьяна ANDсаева
