Mon, Jan 27, 2014
Times of knightly fights, romantic serenades and long
walks under the moon are long gone. Man required
a lot of time, patience and ingenuity to win the heart
his darling. Today, relationships have lost their former romance and
develop very rapidly, bypassing the stages of courtship. Like before
were the men courting and what was the reason for the change?
- At the beginning of the last century, a woman stood a step lower for
men, however, were perceived as something divine,
holy For a man, she was not just a mother and keeper
home comfort, but also the embodiment of beauty and tenderness. Female ideal
found embodiment in art. Women devote poems, songs,
music, pictures, showered with flowers. Perhaps this attitude of men
arose as an echo of the Pushkin period.
- Over time, in the postwar period, the perception of female
image has changed. He no longer appears so fragile and
defenseless as before. This was reinforced by the rise of the feminist
movement. Women have become more independent, uninhibited. Effect
purity and mystery began to fade. But men have not become easier
seek a feminine disposition towards oneself. Courtship acquired some
luxury and sophistication. It was possible to conquer the heart of a woman
in a restaurant, theater, cinema, expensive gift and other similar
wide gestures.
- The sexual revolution of the 70s of the last century opened a new
page of relations of men and women. The woman has become more accessible
and the period of courtship was significantly reduced. Great importance
acquired music, subcultures. Great was the influence of the West. To attract
attention of a woman could have been some import (deficient)
gift, a trip to a concert of a famous artist, rock band or
креативным, порой безумным, поступком.
- Cavaliers and Don Juan of modern times use the whole arsenal
a courting technician left by his great-grandfathers and fathers. It all depends
on the nature of the man and the type of woman. However, it often happens that
intimacy comes quickly, and the period of courtship is late
or does not come at all.
The behavior of men is largely determined by women. The more she
open and accessible, the faster the interest in it disappears. Woman
must intrigue, keep a man at a certain distance,
then it’s easier to decide on the choice of the man, and the relationship with him will
doomed to mutual love and happiness.
Text: Katerina Pchelnikova
