Traditionally, in the family, the role of its head officially belonged
the man – the breadwinner and the protector. Popular wisdom says that “husband
– this is the head, and the wife is the neck “, which turns this head in
the side she needs. But times are changing. Who is in charge?
average Russian family? Portal “Women’s opinion”
decided to find out what the beautiful half thinks about it
of humanity …
As it turned out, only 19.3% of men recognize the head of the family
interviewed women. Adherents of patriarchy prefer to give
leading role to men. But a strong man who grew up in
a traditional family, able to take on complex decisions and carry
all burden of responsibility, it becomes rare today
except …
Maybe that’s why more and more modern women (21.6%)
consider themselves to be the main ones: “I am the undisputed leader in the family. So behaved
initially “…” Equality was assumed, but it turned out that the main self,
when the solution to all questions and problems was gradually brought down to me, ”
– write the voting participants …
Many ladies are not at all afraid of taking on the notorious
responsibility and the whole carriage of problems: “I, I, I and only I decide,
what and how best to do for our family well-being, but to
I also listen to my husband’s advice, never criticize or prejudice
his point of view. He, too, is right in many family, and not
only family matters … everyone is happy with everything, otherwise it would not be long ago
would live together. ” Indeed, the main thing is that a man does not
I felt slighted in such a situation, and reigned in the family
complete harmony.
Some women project their parent’s relationship model
own family: “I myself was raised in the same family … my mother
I was also the head of the family. And also the final decision of all
problems remained only for her. By the way, in families where great
the role of the older generation, parents, are considered by the main 5.7% of the participants
survey …
… “We have everything as it should be: the husband is sure that he is
the owner of the house, I agree, but all the important decisions and not very
the important ones follow me, ”say wise women. And such a model
relationship is very favorable for them: having power in
family, they are not limited in their freedom; feel like
full mistresses, but give their men to understand that
the decisive role belongs to them all the same. Thus, at the same time, they
do not infringe upon the male dignity of their partners and enjoy
almost unlimited power …
53.4% are sure that equality reigns in their family
respondents: “Personally, I have equal rights at home, and I think that
does not live much better, henpecked not quite respect, also, like
podkabluchnits. If both spouses are reasonable people, they ponder and
distribute family responsibilities. But often there is a situation
when they begin to wait for self-sacrifice from their partner, and then
the woman herself decides to return to the patriarchal structure, either
a man is forced to take the dominant role of his wife. Psychologists like
Oddly enough, it has already been proved that families in which there is no equality,
are the most durable and happy …
1880 people aged 20 – 38 years old from 126 cities voted
Russia.