Dislike Syndrome

Sat, 08 Feb 2014

Many psychological problems originate from early
childhood. Children especially need parental love and if they are not
get it in full, it develops into complexes,
accompanied by fear, uncertainty, doubt and
distrustfulness in adulthood.

This is the beginning of the syndrome of dislike, which takes its
roots from childhood, and then formed under the influence of stereotypes and
own principles.

How does the dislike syndrome manifest and is it possible with it
cope?

Most often, this syndrome affects women. And it’s not
as much in the lack of maternal love as in the female ability
idealize the situation and the people around them. Man always
striving for perfection, but a woman often tries to live by
prescribed stereotypes, which transfers to the love sphere.

Often a woman can hear the phrase “No one loves me!” I
no one needs it! And at work everyone envies me! ” When such a lady
you start to dissuade her being valued at work, loved by her loved ones
people, she categorically denies it. She does not calm down to those
until he hears the full set of good words in his address.
Words — stereotypes that she wants to hear.

If a man or people around him understand that he wants to hear
the woman responds to her complaints, and tells her this, she blossoms.
But it is worth telling her the truth, which is different from her own,
as she immediately “fades away”. This is perceived as an additional
confirmation that no one likes her.

This is a typical dislike syndrome. Such a woman is found
in life with a lot of problems.

  • It is hard for her to build relationships with men. First she clings
    for a man, then starts to control him, jealous and
    constantly demand evidence of love. How much attention and
    good words did not give a man, she will always be enough. Such a woman
    will be unsure that she is “truly” loved, and subconsciously
    will wait for betrayal from the man.
  • She “caresses” her own children, making them selfish and
    spoiled
  • She has difficulty communicating with people, mistrustful of
    people and afraid to show their individuality.
  • She does not know how to love herself. From this – can not get true
    life pleasures.
  • She always tries to prove to herself that she is for what
    be in love.

Dislike Syndrome зачастую связан с собственной
self-esteem: inflated or undervalued.

A person with high self-esteem believes that he has a lot in life
I could do it myself, and therefore the people around should appreciate and love
him.

A person suffering from low self-esteem, believes that his not
за что be in love.

Unloved woman difficult in personal relationships. In marriage she is not
feels the right love, so periodically suits her husband
hysterical scenes or complains about their fate.

�“You promised to love me! With me you have to behave the only way
and nothing else! “- a typical phrase of a woman who suffers
syndrome of dislike. It always seems to her that to her
unfairly treated and not loved sufficiently.

Such a manipulation cannot be conducted and constantly persuaded.
man in reverse. Unloved woman will never
enough words of love. She will always suffer from a lack
attention.

But there is one positive quality of such women: they so appreciate
and crave for love that they become loyal partners themselves and
wives.

Dislike Syndrome нельзя преодолеть самостоятельно. Him
the reasons lie deep and the man can never alone with them
cope. This syndrome is very difficult to complete life and
correct building personal relationships. You can get rid of him
only with the help of a professional psychologist or
psychotherapist.

Text: Svetlana Ahi

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