From an early age, every woman dreams of pure white.
wedding dress, about a fairytale prince carrying her in her arms under
a crown, about a harmonious and strong family … And now, it seems, everything goes according to
the plan, the dream is at hand, but only the “prince of something” is not in a hurry to
altar Relations are good, there is love and
understanding, but the bachelor man does not want to part with
their position. And to the claims of the chosen one answers with a sweet smile
and evasive: “because we are so good” … Why do men fear
legal marriage?
- Freedom. For many men, the phrase “legal
marriage is associated with the cell. If your chosen one is a homebody, then
This factor will not affect it. In other cases, men
fear losing their freedom and prefer living together or
relationship without obligation. Here it is necessary to use it
Weapon: Agree to civil marriage and make you feel
a man that you still do not belong to him. Soon instinct
the owner will be felt.
- A responsibility. Marriage is a very important step for
both lovers. And if a woman is by nature ready to take
this responsibility with pride and honor, then a man seven times
подумает, прежде чем идти к altar A life преподносит разные
surprises, so in life you need a strong man. If at the beginning
your way he already has doubts about his own worth
continue this way?
- Material failure. For a man is very important
stand confidently on your feet financially. After all, by nature he
earner, protection and support of his family. If he has no confidence
do not expect romantic offers from him. However material
well-being can wait and earn over the years. Explain to your
chosen one that if you are together, then the desired can be achieved
much faster. Become a guide for your man and
inspiration.
- Parent word. It often happens that in a relationship
parents (sometimes friends) intervene. This is usually
dictated by the housing issue or personal antipathy to the chosen one
son If a man listens to his parents, then your chances
at the wedding will melt every day. With “mama’s son” live
it will be difficult, do you need this? If yes, take it on “weakly”
push for self solution.
- Relationships on autopilot. If the relationship lasts a long time, but
the cherished proposal never arrived, perhaps in your
relationship is not so smooth. Some men, eventually opening
all facets of the character darling, come to the conclusion that this is far
not the woman that they need in life. In the meantime, the same
appeared on the horizon, they, not wanting drastic changes, continue
relations. Here you will calm and frank conversation.
- The experience of the past. If a man has already been married, and this
the experience was not successful for him, the second time to drag him to the registrar
will be very difficult. A man needs to move away from past loss and
negative memories. According to statistics, second marriages are 60% more successful.
the first. Show him a different relationship model, more reliable and
harmonious.
- Страх. Despite its external masculinity and strength,
some men have certain phobias before marriage. Alone
afraid to be rejected, others – to destroy the existing way
of life. There are also men who believe that marriage is
may become colder or in the future they may meet a woman still
it is better. Men’s fears and doubts – a reason to think whether you need
marriage with such a man.
- Не любит детей. Another cause of male reluctance
going down the aisle is a dislike for children. Serious statement for
an avid bachelor. However, as practice shows, in 85% such
men become loving fathers who pamper their children in every way.
Therefore, you can make certain concessions and tricks to
create a family with a beloved man.
- Жадность. Family is not only a responsibility, but also
permanent material investments. Therefore some men
approach the issue of marriage with economic counting. To in
In the future, do not become a trembling maid, reporting for
every penny, it is better to part with such a gentleman. Marriage with
the meanie is doomed to failure.
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