Wed, 23 Jul 2014
You will probably find the phrase “getting
Sex is a pleasure. ” But isn’t that what we do for that?
Sex problems for many women occur when they
live alone for some time, avoid contact, survive
parting. The next attempt at a rapprochement makes them hard
be nervous Women worry that they are not good enough
not a beautiful body and that they will not give pleasure
partner As a result, stress arises, the lady is not able
relax.
To be able to have sex and enjoy it – two different moments.
What is needed in order to enjoy the lessons
having sex?
Be here and now
It means enjoying what is happening, not plunging in,
that is, without referring to the memory archive storing all the memories and
sensations, not including imagination, not thinking about plans for the future. Have
women in the head is constantly a lot of thoughts like
positive and negative. Psychologists think that recall
pleasant moments in life are helpful at the dentist’s office, since
it distracts from pain, but being in the bedroom with a loved one, you need
feeling in the present moment, concentrating on the present
moment.
Focus on your feelings
Disturbing pleasant feelings can also be spoiled
extraneous sounds and images. If you pay much attention
image (will consider your partner or think how
you look what position to take) or focus on
different sounds (creaking bed, cat’s meow), then your feelings
during sex will become much poorer. Focus on the sensations
your own body, and everything else will complement your enjoyment.
If possible, relax!
Try to get rid of body tension in the body.
muscles. Plunge into the world of your feelings. In the end, give yourself
opportunity to lose control! Try to loosen up next to
a person you trust. Let your body, head, relax
open heart. Allow the body to be free. Relaxed body
gives the partner true pleasure. It moves in unison,
catching the slightest subtleties.
Breathe freely
Do not focus on breathing, breathe freely, deeply and
as often as possible. A body that is energized and moving is simply
need oxygen. A large amount of oxygen switches the brain to
completely different condition, a person becomes a bit
intoxicated.
�”Turn off” the head
Try to force your inner voice for a while.
keep quiet Express your appreciation to him and concentrate your
thoughts on enhancing sensations.
Do not set yourself bans
Exclude such things as “no”, “don’t do that”, “don’t
I can and should. You together with a man who just can not
know what you think. A man acts gradually, literally
touch He can’t even imagine that you have a mass
restrictions and prohibitions. Ask yourself a series of questions:
1. What creates an obstacle?
2. Why don’t they do that?
3. Why do you believe this?
4. And if this happens, what will happen?
5. Do you think badly of yourself in the future?
Stop torturing yourself. Feel confident, feel
yourself in the present, have fun, enjoy your beloved
a man
