5 years of married life: the crisis has creptunnoticed

Sun, Oct 26, 2014

Sooner or later, but almost every family is faced with
that a certain relationship arises between the spouses
tension, leading, at times, to divorce.

There is a certain pattern associated with years.
life together. Crisis usually arises both in a year and
after 3, 5, 7, 13, 25 years. Each time appear
new specific factors although there are some common
patterns.

The first signs of a family crisis

Their appearance suggests that there are all signs of the upcoming
crisis. That is why it is important to know about them as much as possible.

– Constantly there are conflicts, the reason for which can
serve any little thing. Moreover, each of the parties is absolutely not
draws attention to each other’s arguments, and tries to make
your opinion.

– Aggressive behavior is becoming more characteristic and even
comes to battering.

– Intimacy occurs less or less.
at all.

– The addiction affects the behavior of the spouses. They stop
monitor your appearance and behavior, especially at home.

– Everyone goes into their cares, especially after the birth of children, and
less and less time to make joint decisions.

– Workaholism also does not contribute to the rapprochement of the family.

Of course, each crisis year has its own characteristics,
they and five year living.

Crucial moment

It is after five years that a moment comes that will allow
either build relationships or only exacerbate the already tense
relations. Then the next crisis or divorce is just around the corner.

– Very often, by this time in the family was born and grows up
child. This joyous event often affects the deterioration
financial situation and leads to the permanent resolution of different
problems. For example, you need to arrange your child in kindergarten.

– Usually many chores for the care of the baby and the house more
fall exactly on his wife, and this affects distance and some
dissatisfaction with yourself or your spouse.

– Husband spends more time at work and others appear
interests hobbies. Although it is now necessary to pay more
attention is the household chores and their loved ones.

– Everyday routine increasingly sucks and starts
affect ordinary fatigue from work and constant hassle,
which seems to have no end.

Right now it is important to change the situation, try to do everything
so that a sufficiently young family can not only
survive, but also live in complete harmony for many years.

Ways to overcome the crisis of family relations 5 years

Is it possible to quickly overcome the crisis that occurs on
fifth year of marriage? Many psychologists and scientists believe that this is quite
really.

– The most important thing to do is to start again.
communicate and talk with each other. In this case it is necessary not only
listen, but also find common interests.

– It is important to learn to forgive, and not to sulk for a few trifles
days in a row. It’s better to ask for time right away.
calm down.

– Care of the child should be evenly distributed among themselves.
If possible, you can hire a nanny or ask a grandmother
sit with a grandson or granddaughter.

– In your free time you can go to the movies together or swim in
the pool. Ballroom dancing can also make a new impetus to
relations.

– Nothing bad will happen if the spouses spend their holidays
with your friends, going to the sea or fishing. Everyone should
have your own personal space. One can read a favorite book,
and the other to play any game on the computer.

Of course, some prefer to seek help from
to the psychologist. It is only important to remember that first of all
will depend on yourself. We must learn to listen more
partner and make compromises.

Any relationship crisis is not a sentence. Important faster than him
overcome, then family life will again sparkle with bright edges and
will move to a new level. It is important to get rid of the negative and make
for yourself all the necessary conclusions to try to avoid
repetition of such a situation.

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