5 effective ways to save familyrelations

Thu, Jun 26, 2014

One day, one day, we wake up feeling
full satisfaction and with the knowledge that life is successful,
everything is going well
and interesting people, but at the side quietly snuffles beloved
a man with thoughts of which begins and ends each
day. Here it seemed to be happiness, and nothing could destroy it.
But it takes several years (and for many they whiz by like one
moment), and not to remember those feelings of tenderness and awe, not
remember even why you fell in love with this worthless person, so
nasty sniffing near. It literally starts to annoy everyone: starting
from the habit of picking with a fork in food and ending by being in
in the same room – and says a nasty alien voice, and children
does so awkwardly and even aspirin in
first aid kit to find … What happened? Do not you agree characters?
Did you choose the wrong one?

На протяжении лет семейные relations претерпевают много
crisis periods. But some families somehow cope with this, but
others “fly” to collect documents for divorce, falling asleep each other
reproaches and humiliating insults. Is it possible to do something
so that family life does not become a heavy burden pulling to the bottom?

Joint leisure

Living together, the couple eventually forget about the romance and
tenderness, which during the candy-bouquet period literally
inspired, inspired to feats. Remember how literally everything
I wanted to do together: from cooking breakfast to repair
car. Now there are children, and you have polluted in everyday life, time
not even really to be found, let alone something more. So
why not remember the beginning of a relationship? For example, send children
to grandparents, prettify and invite your second
half a date, some fooling around, smearing each other
ice cream, etc. Spend at least one weekend together, make
gifts to each other, and even for a moment, remember how
изменить relations внимание и нежность.

Do not wash dirty linen in public

Do not once again tell others about the details of your
family life. The family is a fragile world in which there is no place.
stranger. Why, you know the opinion of the parents or, moreover,
friends about your family quarrels and troubles? It reminds
being in the same bed: spouses, children, parents, friends, neighbors
– and everyone pulls the blanket over himself, prompts the most comfortable
posture, closely monitoring the implementation of recommendations. How do you like that
picture?!

Babki- “whispers”

When it comes to divorce, many start to rush out
extremes to extremes, look for causes of discord, and, as a rule,
find guilty. Of course, to blame “the neighbor’s second wife
uncle grandson “. After all, according to another fortune teller, it was she
jealous of your family happiness and has damaged you “on
loneliness ”- now the family is collapsing. Of course, compassionate
Grandma can help – “whisper”, but you have to do this for each
month during the year to come to her. Monetary thanks for
the work done is, of course, welcome.

Stop reproaches

Every day, saying nasty things to each other, you just more
уничтожаете семейные relations. Just calm down, find
spare time and do a simple exercise: split an A4 sheet
along 2 halves, on the left, write everything your second has done
half so that the family broke up. When do this,
on the right, opposite each husband’s “merit” item, write your own. Highly
It is useful to compare both parts, and after – just tear off the entries on the left.
and destroy, and keep the records on the right and try something
to change. Believe me, the result is not long in coming.

Give freedom!

Do not forget that your partner is also an individual, he does not have to want
do what you have planned for the day. Maybe he just wanted
arrange a legitimate day off and go fishing with friends.
Why not? Things are not going anywhere, and there is nothing wrong with
that the picture standing in the corner for a month will be hanging on
wall one day later.

Строить relations — очень сложный и кропотливый процесс,
requiring a lot of strength, understanding and patience. Unfortunately, our life
arranged so that you have to rush all the time to something
have time, while in this crazy running we forget about the very
main and valuable. Love, and even more passion, connecting people in
самом начале, со временем угасает, и если relations изначально не
were built on respect for each other – it’s like
build a house without a foundation in the marshland. All works
doomed to failure in advance.

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